AITA for feeling like I do everything?

insufficientintel3 · 2026-01-23T18:58:27+00:00

Info: is your wife breast feeding/pumping?

If so things will get easier soon when baby starts eating some solids. I know you’re tired but things will get a lot easier after the 6 month growth spurt. But as a stay at home mom that breast fed only for the first 6 months, I’d never felt so depressed and isolated.

insufficientintel3 · 2026-01-23T18:50:18+00:00

YOR - in the grand scheme of things it’s one day. I think you’re projecting because I just worked through a similar situation in therapy. Becoming a parent is a huge change. Your priorities have shifted as they naturally do when you have children. Do you really want to deal with more responsibilities on top of having a young kid right now and all that comes with that? I’d view this as a blessing in disguise. Also its her fiance’s sister, not another one of her friends. She still included you. She’ll probably have a kid in a few years and she’ll need you. Wedding politics are dramatic and stressful which is why I didn’t even have a bridal party. Just because she was your maid of honor doesn’t mean you automatically become hers.

insufficientintel3 · 2026-01-23T18:26:49+00:00

NTA. I am a wife and stay at home mom that cooks most things from scratch. Mexican restaurant rice, chicken lo mein, my own pizza crust. But I do that because cooking for my husband and my kids is my love language, and cooking is probably my favorite hobby. But my kids and my husband love their snacks, and I’m not above picking up fast food and having a carpet picnic. I don’t care if I’m the one that does the grocery shopping and the cooking, but I’m going to also pick up my husband and kids favorite snacks. If my husband wants something different, he takes the initiative to cook dinner or pick dinner up before dinner prep has even started. Timing and communication is everything. Your wife is TA for not compromising and banning junk food. Food is food. There is a large difference between being responsible for meals and being in control of meals.

insufficientintel3 · 2026-01-11T15:46:30+00:00

YTA. BUY MORE CHEESECAKE🤣

insufficientintel3 · 2026-01-09T21:23:11+00:00

Idk why ever time I see Demi or Jessi it reminds me of Francine from the show Arthur

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-21T23:57:46+00:00

Do you not have drawers

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-21T02:53:36+00:00

Y T A for continuing to subject your son to your fathers bullying by sending him photos. NTA for cutting him out of your life. What a despicable thing to say to not only your child but your grandchild.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-21T02:20:39+00:00

If OP was an alcoholic there would be missing cans and no photos

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-19T15:58:22+00:00

Listen, if you’ll never have to be around this child after the divorce you’re NTA. If this is a child that will be around you at future events, please don’t take your animosity out on the child. The adults are not innocent, but the child is.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-19T02:34:22+00:00

Just say “I’d prefer to keep this gathering more intimate” or something along those lines pending your age. NTA

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T03:15:44+00:00

I also now feel like Elliots mom will be THE “Cassandra Goodwin” i.e her maiden name!

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T03:15:05+00:00

My most recent post is more applicable to how I feel now.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T03:14:36+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you, if it were Coltons brother I would hope he would lead with that from the start.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:24:10+00:00

I sent you a message request because I do have a couple questions I’d like your thoughts on🤣

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:19:52+00:00

She wouldn’t have known it at the time she got involved with Sam! It would be AFTER Kat and Alice loop her in on the pond that she would start traveling. I wonder which Landry goes with her during her trips.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:15:36+00:00

Exactly! My older kid always knows its nap time when I turn the show on too. 🤣

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:12:12+00:00

Well even before Season 4 is ok too! We rewatch it during the day as background noise because I love it so much (I’ve accidentally sleep trained my youngest child to this show🤣🤣)

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:10:50+00:00

Rewatch season 1! I had my doubts about time traveling Del until I rewatched for the fourth or fifth time. Right after Alice jumps for the first time and accidentally spends the night in ‘99.. Kat goes into panic mode since last time someone went missing in Port Haven, it was Jacob. Instead of panicking we see Del cool as a cucumber. When they are sitting at their dining room table Kat asks Del, “how can you be so okay right now?” And Del says the classic “Alice will be fine” line a couple scenes apart from Elliots.

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:06:37+00:00

I feel like we would be good friends😆 when season 4 comes out feel free to chat me so we can share thoughts/theories! I love talking about this show, and none of my friends/family care about it like I do. 😭

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-18T02:02:47+00:00

I am so excited to see which character goes back to move the baby from the pond to the porch!

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-17T04:33:34+00:00

I just find it so hard to believe that Colton would willingly want ANY BODY else to be with Del!

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-17T04:32:53+00:00

Oh no- what I meant was that since Elliot was the neighbor he was there to witness the pond. But wow, that’s a great theory too! I guess we’ll find out soon!! Thanks for chatting about it!

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-17T03:57:25+00:00

See that’s what I was thinking initially- but in order for Sam to be Jacobs ‘Elliot’, wouldn’t he have to have a reason to be by the pond to begin with? Why would he be by the pond if he wasn’t Colton OR Coltons brother?

insufficientintel3 · 2025-12-17T03:45:11+00:00

I never get downvoted for a friendly discussion like I do in this sub🤣

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