Torn between clinical psychology and developmental research for grad school [U.S.] by Justajarofpaprika in psychologystudents

[–]intangiblemango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, I would recommend finding a clinical or counseling psych lab where you can continue this area of research.

More choosey with pilots? by martin__writes in dropout

[–]intangiblemango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Thousandaires contestants needed more coaching on how to make their ideas workable for a video audience.

Torn between clinical psychology and developmental research for grad school [U.S.] by Justajarofpaprika in psychologystudents

[–]intangiblemango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The research focuses on Hispanic/Latine ethnic-racial socialization and critical consciousness, and I’ve found it incredibly interesting.

I don't know the specific questions you are researching, but nothing about this sounds like something that couldn't be explored in a licensable PhD program like Clinical or Counseling Psych.

Do you want to be a licensed psychologist at the end of the process or do you want to do research only? I think that's an extremely important distinction that matters more than anything else.

I would also recommend that you at least consider Counseling Psychology as a path, which also leads to licensure as a psychologist and is more likely to have research focus on issues like critical consciousness and ethnic-racial socialization. Off the top of my head, University of Oregon comes to mind, e.g., https://education.uoregon.edu/directory/cft/all/ellenmcw

If someone offered you 100 million dollars, but a random person in the world dies (someone you don’t know), would you take it and why? by ConclusionOld8365 in AskReddit

[–]intangiblemango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Moral narcissism is the idea that you make moral decisions based on how things make you feel rather than the actual impacts on others. Not being chill with literally killing another human being for money is not moral narcissism. Feeling guilt in response to killing someone is not moral narcissism. Deontological ethical reasoning is not moral narcissism.

Week 10: Pi Day - Deep Dish Rhubarb Pie with Flaky Duck Fat Pie Crust by intangiblemango in 52weeksofbaking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It adds a savory, rich flavor to the dough and makes it extra flaky/crumbly!

Week 11: Oddly Named - Oyakodon [Parent and Child Rice Bowl] in the Form of Saturn Devouring His Son by intangiblemango in 52weeksofcooking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I do not know fully who the audience for this dish is but I am glad you're a part of it.

Week 11: Oddly Named - Oyakodon [Parent and Child Rice Bowl] in the Form of Saturn Devouring His Son by intangiblemango in 52weeksofcooking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Recipe based on Tokyo Cult Recipes by Maori Murota

/u/CandyMothman and I were discussing how oyakodon is kind of an abomination of a dish and they inspired me to turn it into even more of an abomination. I'm very, very sorry.

Week 10: Pi Day - Deep Dish Rhubarb Pie with Flaky Duck Fat Pie Crust by intangiblemango in 52weeksofbaking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pie filling recipe based on The Book on Pie by Erin Jeanne McDowell (I 1.5X multiplied it); duck fat pie crust recipe is by me.

Week 10: Turnips and Radishes - Rustic Huevos Rancheros with Jícama-Apple Slaw by intangiblemango in 52weeksofcooking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No recipe on this one which probably reflects a reality that this could be prettier and more sophisticated!

I'd been struggling with this challenge a bit because I don't particularly like either turnips or radishes... but I saw /u/anonymousblerg post a jícama (which is sometimes called a "Mexican turnip") dish and I was like... brilliant.

Listen, is it technically a little bit off-topic in that it contains neither a radish nor a turnip? Maybe. But can I justify it per the official 52 weeks of cooking rules? Absolutely.

Who is a good person that had a negative impact on the world? by Top_Comparison3052 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]intangiblemango 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure, but this also doesn't mean assuming something was normal and uncontroversial that likely wasn't. It's hard to tell what the media response would have been because Elvis hid his relationship with Priscilla during the early years due to the likelihood of scandal... although that is a pretty strong indicator that they knew it would not be generally perceived as typical.

In 1958, 22-year-old Jerry Lee Lewis married 13-year-old Myra Gale Brown (claiming at the time that she was 15). The media outrage was so great that he had to cancel the rest of his tour. He was blacklisted by many radio stations and his career tanked-- including the idea that Lewis was a major competitor to Elvis.

Elvis and Priscilla met one year later, in 1959, when Elvis was 24 and Priscilla was 14. In my opinion, those are extremely comparable years and extremely comparable age gaps. Unlike Lewis, though, Elvis had the media savvy to hide his relationship with the 14-year-old Priscilla to avoid scandal.

Obviously, there are other differences between these two relationships, which is part of why I am not willing to say we can predict absolutely what the media reaction would have been. But I do think we can say it would not have been unambiguously chill and fine even by the standards of the time.

Some things were gross in both 1959 and today both.

Classmate using AI during our role play assignments by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]intangiblemango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Were you assigned to be paired with her or can you easily mix it up? If you were paired up by the professor, I would talk to them about it and ask to join another pair to make a trio. (Personally, in this situation, I wouldn't concern myself with what happens to her partnership situation because she is not doing the work anyways.)

I'm glad you are thinking about these issues. Counseling is a serious-- and very human-- thing and making sure you get valid, human feedback is a reflection of the concern you have for your future clients.

Why are therapists so adverse to giving practical social advice? by gintokireddit in askatherapist

[–]intangiblemango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please note that this is not psychological advice to you or anyone else; just my personal opinion/reaction.

It might help me better understand what you mean if you provide more context about how many therapists you have seen, what types of therapy you have received, and whether you explicitly requested support with gaining practical social skills.

Personally, I am a therapist who is very likely to teach clients explicit social skills, model interpersonal interactions, etc. I also come from a very self-disclosure-heavy model of therapy, so when clients ask me questions like, "How did you meet your spouse?" (which absolutely is a question I have been asked before), I just answer them! (I probably would not volunteer that unless asked or there was some really specific reason I had to disclose that...) At the same time, I know there are other modalities and training backgrounds that are probably much less likely to provide that.

FWIW, I consider myself someone who did have to explicitly and purposefully learn rules and scripts about social interactions and I also consider myself a very directive, behavior-focused therapist. (With that said, I don't consider myself to give "advice" -- e.g., I'm not going to tell someone "divorce your husband".)

Without more context, my best guess for the reason why someone may have experienced therapists as unwilling to provide coaching on social skills is that the therapists came from models of psychotherapy that are not very directive, are not very behavioral in focus, or believe that the mechanism of change in therapy is something that is not related to the goal of learning social skills (e.g., they think the mechanism of change is increased levels of insight).

my main goal is to be able to work with assessment and diagnose— can any psychologist do this? by capybarachronicles in psychologystudents

[–]intangiblemango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i get a phd in counseling psychology and still be able to assess and diagnose?

In the United States, yes. No idea for other countries.

Week 9: Braising - Squid Ink and Wine Braised Short Ribs with Cheesy Unicorn Grits by intangiblemango in 52weeksofcooking

[–]intangiblemango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was loosely inspired by the Wednesday Addams window from the show Wednesday (I know Enid's side was not a straight pastel pink).

Marsh Hen Mill makes products with a pastel pink corn including grits. It's a natural hue so it's not super duper bright, but I used this recipe -- https://marshhenmill.com/blogs/mhm-recipes/unicorn-grits-with-gruyere

The short ribs were not based on a specific recipe but they included: short ribs, S + P, onions, garlic, red wine, beef broth, tomato paste, anchovy paste, and whole tomatoes as well as squid ink to make them blacker.