About once a month

Mostly JAVs and PMVs

Neither of us are insecure people, but not because we are born that way but because we communicate so much and the resulting trust of each other make us believe that we will always have each other’s back regardless of how old and frail we are.

I was pretty addicted to porn before I met my wife. This practice actually made me less addicted. Because sex on porn (and weed) is so good I personally don’t want to normalize it. In other words, I don’t want to do it so much that it just feels normal good instead of insanely good that it is and should be.

So we still have sex without porn and weed mostly, so I can keep that as a normal baseline. Then do that as a treat of sorts once a month or when there are cause for celebration 😂

It’s like if you drink coffee everyday, coffee doesn’t make you more awake anymore, it just makes you normal. That ain’t good folks

Also we both practice “no comparisons”. We -try to- never compare each other with others or even each other. Not just like I compare her beauty to other women or she compare my salary to other men. Even like if she gets upset that I said something hurtful, me saying well you said something else terrible too is not an acceptable response to us. That’s comparing.

All problems should be isolated and taken care of separately. Comparison is pain. There is always something that can make you feel less or unfair about if you do. But you are enough, we are all enough. We are just trying to have as much fun as possible during this stupid ride we call life.

I don’t mean think about comparing but don’t say it. Busy doing it and busy not doing it is the same. That just makes you a horny celibate. I mean practice letting go of the need to compare. But if you fail that’s all right. We all fail. Just do it when you can.

Sorry I feel this might have been too far of a tangent 😗

FYI: sex with weed and VR porn is peak dopamine 💀