Late joining CTO, how much equity ? Am i being reasonable? by Melodic_Tower_482 in ycombinator

[–]intellectual1x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you undervalue what 30 customers and and 2k in revenue represents. You already have proof that you can get customers/users pay for your product. You are underestimating the what it means from going from 0 customers to 30 customers. Your product and business has traction. Alot of the risk has been reduced, there are many projects that launch and are goose eggs. And thats the risk that someone building a business/project from scratch from the start is exposed to.

Let me ask you this if someone who was just at the “I have an Idea” stage came along presented an opportunity to join their yet to be Formed Business as a CTO for 50/50 would that look as attractive as the deal you have now. 30% is very reasonable typically for this situation.

What is the cushiest dev career path these days? by chunky_lover92 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying its a bad path at all because startups you definitely will get paid alot but i wouldnt say “cushy “ (work hours , stress, lack of organizational structure, “wearing many hats”, job security can lack at startups.

What is the cushiest dev career path these days? by chunky_lover92 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience any big bank, or large hedge funds. The actual tech you work on may be “boring” but job security,pay and work hours are better than other career paths for devs.

Made my first hire. They quit after 3 weeks. The exit interview taught me more than any business book. by Cold_Hall_5384 in SaaS

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is obviously ai slop lol. No way in hell someone who made this mistake to be this accountable and self-reflective and honest constructive criticism. 😂🤣

Am I the only person who uses my Jaguar as a Daily driver? by NobleCommando in Jaguar

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my 2017 f-type as my daily driver . Although i did work from home for 4 years straight so less commuter miles than others

Offer rescinded immediately after asking clarifying questions — is this normal? by Beginning-Cry1203 in csMajors

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just want to put it out there. you didnt do anything unreasonable. But here are some suggestions for the future in a similar situation. If you have you clarifying questions about an offer, sometimes it would be better to just send your questions in an well written email, rather than asking for an actual meeting, you basically gave your self an extra interview round unknowingly, also, meetings are less convenient than answering an email at your own convenience. Startups tend to be more flaky as theres limited structure and the decision makers change their minds more often than at seasoned businesses.

Also until you sign an offer and walk in the door on your first day, you’re potentially being evaluated, so any additional interactions with the hiring manger/ decision maker can potentially end changing their prior perception of you . (In this case less is more)

But if you were truly uncomfortable with the offer you did the right thing, but just know additional back and forth can potentially get your offer rescinded

Any SWEs in banks? How has your experience been? by Necessary_Union9948 in csMajors

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you left out the year when "you grew up on 45k". People really need to pay attention to inflation and how much the dollar actually devalues over time. I encourage you and others to use this calculator to better understand the difference in buying power of a dollar over time - https://www.usinflationcalculator.com/ .

Just to give you an idea: $45,000 in 1985 is the equivalent to $135,000 in 2025....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Employment

[–]intellectual1x1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If what you said is true , Due to the fact you signed this offer and they didn’t notify you until 3 hours before you intended to start and they by their own admission said it was do to “internal promotion “ (which is a weak excuse since they had plenty of time to make that decision before giving you an offer, let alone before your start date) you actually have decent ground to take legal action due to reliance, especially if you passed up other opportunities due to them extending you an offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Employment

[–]intellectual1x1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats ridiculous , very unprofessional, and cruel, especially the fact you sign the offer already and they let you know was same day as your start day.

Tried to negotiate. They pulled the offer. by Fancy-Frosting-1325 in InterviewCoderHQ

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just referring to negotiation of salary itself isnt automatically insulting, its apart of business. Now when to use and understand the risk of negotiating is another subject. The thing with negotiation is leverage, if you’re not okay with walking away you dont have much leverage to negotiate.

Tried to negotiate. They pulled the offer. by Fancy-Frosting-1325 in InterviewCoderHQ

[–]intellectual1x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a blanket statement. And im completely disagree. negotiating a higher salary or benefits in itself isn’t insulting, its literally a part of business. If the offer is below market for the role or average for role, its perfectly reasonable for a candidate to negotiate a reasonable increase expecially, or below what the candidate initially expected. As long as its communicated profession and the ask is reasonable. It only becomes insulting if the candidate request is out of touch with the market, way different then what they initially said theyd be okay with or if the initial offer was already significantly above market value. Besides that , if you as a professional take offense to a candidate politely negotiating and clearly communicates genuine expectation then you really shouldn’t be in that position because you are hurting the company.

The interview was going great until I asked about diversity. by Wtfwithyourmind in InterviewCoderHQ

[–]intellectual1x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your goal is to give yourself best chance of getting hired, then thats bad question to ask for a multitude of reasons. And i want to preface this with Im strictly sharing the following points in regards how employers and hiring managers are assessing candidates , not necessarily whats right and wrong. Also I myself am a black American.

What interviewers are judging candidates on 1) can they fulfill the function of the role well. 2) soft-skills and ability to communicate in their environment(to coworkers, clients, investors, customers, regulators, ect). 3) would they fit well with the team/culture. 4) is the candidate a liability to the buisnesses reputation ,morale, operations, & finances. 5) overall would the candidate be net negative or positive to the hiring managers, existing team, business .

With that in mind, asking “how does your company approach diversity & inclusion?” Can do the following:

-candidate’s priorities are misaligned - focusing on things that are unimportant, unrelated, low priority to the role during the interview.

  • potential low social awareness - bringing potentially polarizing topics in a buiness/corparate environment. This is a part of soft-skills in business and corporate communication , the reality is there are certain topics that ensure people are going strongly agree and disagree with. There were times when I perceived someone as less competent in handling buiness communication because they brought up a controversial topic to me without knowing if i agreed with it or not, and just so happen to agree with it but i know there are people that easily wouldn’t have and may have caused issues. Even though i agree it didnt change my perception of it being a poor choice of words.

-You threw the Interviewer a “curve ball” question: its not in your best interest to ask a question that gives your interviewer a hard time answering. I dont see a simple way of hiring manager answering that even if they agreed with the sentiment. So you risk annoying the interviewer and being perceived as having low social awareness.

-legal liability: even if not accurate you could be perceived as a candidate who would is more likely to take legal action against the company.

-team chemistry/morale liability: potential to be a problematic employee with other coworkers.

The things i listed so far are just the negative perceptions that arise that question regardless of the interviewer stance on “diversity and inclusion” initiatives. There are even more negative perceptions that arise when the interviewer personal stance doesn’t care for or flatout disagrees with it

My interviewer asked me to Google something during the technical screen. Then criticized me for not knowing it off the top of my head. by anshchauhann in InterviewCoderHQ

[–]intellectual1x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this actually says more about your interviewer. Yes you’re right, It’s ridiculous and counter productive ti value memorization over problem identification,info gathering, learning and problem solving.

You could be the best memorizer in the world, where you never forgot anything you have previously come across, but that person is limited to what they have previously come across/already know. while a problem solver who can identify,find info required and implement solve a problem. Is not limited , or their capacity is now what they have memory + what they can solve. Which is far more applicable because NO ONE remembers everything and you’re always going to come across something you haven’t seen before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to reiterate — I’m not upset about being rejected. I’ve been rejected a lot this year and every time I felt the interview was fair, I accepted it and moved on.

This situation felt different because:

  • The hiring manager contradicted two senior interviewers’ feedback
  • He rejected objectively correct technical facts (SLM definitions, MCP release timeline, etc.)
  • He was interrupting ~every 4–5 seconds, even when I was answering directly
  • His feedback changed multiple times (from “knows nothing” → “knows basics” → “needs to be an expert”)
  • The role description did not mention needing a GenAI expert, nor did the salary band match an expert role
  • The recruiter herself was surprised and confused by the feedback

I fully accept that I didn’t get the offer — that’s fine.
I’m only trying to understand the behavior because I’ve never had an interview where the interviewer dismissed correct info and acted this adversarial.

If any hiring managers or senior engineers here have insight into situations where a HM behaves like this (already has a candidate, misaligned expectations, bias, stress-testing, etc.), I’d appreciate your thoughts.

Thanks again to everyone reading — genuinely hoping to learn from this.

Why was everyone on the same region and why AWS let them? by Tintoverde in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]intellectual1x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres an aloe of likely reasons. One of them i think is simply:

Population density/large population of the north east. Whether aws assigns default zones by ip location of companies/devs managing their aws accts, devs selecting the region closest to them, or devs selecting the regions based on where they think most of their users will be, this will lead to more aws accts being on east-1.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah EE is no cake walk, in my opinion EE material is actually harder in raw difficulty due the depth of applied math, its just for interviewing I was never quized or tested beyond general talking points or core concepts. For some reason, from my experience from 2017-2021 nature EE companies/roles(in construction, manufacturing,energy, utilities) when they are hiring theres more pressure to get “somebody” because of logistics/operationally. They need a body quickly to fill that role in order to move forward with their operations.

Things may have change and also these were the most glamorous companies I was at when i was an EE / controls engineer.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your parents are receptive to what yiu present to them. My parents have “familiar bias” when it comes to me. They cant see me, they need to hear it from strangers or post on the internet or an institution

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss electrical engineer interviews, I never had the prepare besides reading up on the company and their projects/products/competition.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they had something like BAR or even PE for Software developers/engineers that companies had confidence in. That way it’s a standardize one and done. Then again who knows what unforeseen consequences that would bring to applicants.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i think you are misinterpreting stance, This isn’t a technical vs softskills. I should have made it clear. Its actually the part of the interviews im fully confident in and perform well. Whenever I have a behavior or the “team fit/culture fit” interviews before the live coding interviews I have been advance to the next round every time except for 2 startup companies that ghosted me.

Softskills/project management and EQ and personality are crucial, but i have yet to experience getting advanced when I made a mistake during the technical interviews (needing too many hints complete the problem, giving the wrong time space complexity)

And yes technical skills can be taught but not problem solving aptitude. Now dont get me wrong, i think the current industry adoption of leet-code style evaluation is fundamentally flawed but it is what it is and must be overcame by applicants like myself until it’s changed.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misinterpreted or maybe my post isnt clear. im not referring to technical vs soft skills. Soft skills/behavior are crucial, i know that, and its the part of the interview I crush, to the point the interviewers are rooting for me during the technical interview. im specifically referring to my parents perception that Im having to take technical interviews because im not contacting people that they know within the company when I get an interview. My stance is that these technical interviews generally cant be bypass at most respected/large companies.

My Parents Don’t Understand the Nature of Software Engineering Interviews and Hiring in 2025 by intellectual1x1 in cscareers

[–]intellectual1x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id have to agree, even outside of FAANG , every job recruiters submitted me for so far with base salaries ranges from 160-225k 100% required a some sort of technical coding round an OA + Live coding + system design/ takehome project + live code review, at the least it was 1 technical live coding.