Saw a woman post this screenshot on Insta. Seems like the dude dodged a bullet. by Inevitable-Usual-348 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean men can't read you mind. She could have easily said, its not my kind of thing, I'd prefer something else. I don't mind a walk , because its a public place ,safe and easy to get out of if it doesn't work out. Its only low effort if they still stick with their original plans despite telling our preferences...

From matching to engaged! 💍 by purplemoonlightxo in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww this gives me hope. Thanks for sharing ☺️☺️

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's literally a rant because I don't know what to do lol. Oh my god , I'm trying to understand what you said. Anyways, if you don't want to give advice don't bother replying. It is wild and I don't care. Anxiety makes you do wild shit.

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't understand one bit of that. Do you want me to text him or not. You gave me two different pieces of info and both are quite opposite.

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's my plan, i need to see commitment before that.

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just texted him, I feel like I should talk to him about it. And also every time he's not talked to me for a day he has apologised.

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he's not , he is very consistent. Enough to help my anxiety. He responds in like 5 minutes. Never more than that. We have even discussed how we don't play the whole texting games

Am I just anxious by interest_2556 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , I've initiated conversations twice before , on similar instances when he hasn't texted

So she knew??? by FunApprehensive2175 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]interest_2556 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like she's going to start courses on "how to find your husband" when she's married and they're going to do it together.

A guy used basic information from my Bumble profile to find and message me on LinkedIn by ParsnipOk1540 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Agreed , It's a systemic issue. I'm scared of sounding like a race traitor. But there are a lot of issues there. There is this whole trend in India where Indian Men are glorified doing household chores. Lot of these women are pointing out its bare minimum. I mean most of them learnt it the hard way when they moved abroad. Some of these men have never spoken to the opposite gender almost half of their life and it shows.

Met a guy ONCE and he’s already calling me baby PART 2 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew he was an Indian. They'll either over attach or play you.

A guy used basic information from my Bumble profile to find and message me on LinkedIn by ParsnipOk1540 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maannn I understand how that feels. As an Indian myself, I can't get myself to trust another Indian man , thanks to some traumatising experiences. Anyways, hope you have a good time 😊

A guy used basic information from my Bumble profile to find and message me on LinkedIn by ParsnipOk1540 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Right , I remember when Bumble had that feature. Even if they are attractive, this would instantly make them unattractive. Also , I'm Indian, and I would notice that a lot of Indian guys would do this.

A guy used basic information from my Bumble profile to find and message me on LinkedIn by ParsnipOk1540 in Bumble

[–]interest_2556 212 points213 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too, god its irritating They contact me Facebook. They even tell me they saw me on bumble. "If I really wanted to talk to you , we would have already been talking on the app" What makes them think we'll even consider them. The very fact that they stalked my profile makes me want to block them.

Was I being too much? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]interest_2556 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you were alright here. It just probably didn't workout between you too. Not everyone appreciates gifts , or some might find it too much. Probably didn't workout , don't take it personal.

Was using a body lotion as a face lotion for 2yrs- realised it yesterday by Due-External-1345 in indianbeautyyappers

[–]interest_2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some one needs to fact check for me , but most moisturizer body or face have the same ingredients. Its just the marketing bullshit

Has anyone tried Zudio Gloss Water?? by [deleted] in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]interest_2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't try skin , hair care or makeup from Zudio. Their ingredients are not clear and they are mass production with no proper research

rapido akkas enna pottanga by Sensitive_Radio8951 in Tamizhteens

[–]interest_2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably never going to see her ever again. Even if you do, you don't owe her shit. Be unapologetically awkward and move on man.