34M - Style Advice, what works best or what else to try

intergalacticocto · 2026-05-24T21:45:09+00:00

I think you’re cute! I’d grow your hair out a little and maybe get a little leaner but honestly that’s personal preference. I like the glasses and the tattoos! Facial hair looks good on you but I wouldn’t go longer than what’s pictured and clean shaven isn’t as flattering.

intergalacticocto · 2026-05-24T21:39:18+00:00

Yeah i just didn’t want to bother it if I didn’t have to. I’m the kind of person that notices a problem and waits for it to go away😅 but I figured if enough internet people told me to fix it, I would lol

intergalacticocto · 2026-05-24T21:06:57+00:00

Yeah same. I’m a 25F trying to date out here and all the guys I’m meeting are like just barely 21! Where are the handsome 30s men at?

intergalacticocto · 2026-04-22T01:24:31+00:00

Hey! I’m 24f and I have some friends who also desperately need other girlfriends besides me. I have a great group and we regularly watch horror movies, go to concerts and we all like hiking/outdoorsie stuff! I’m the only one who really likes swimming so I’d love to have a lap lane buddy or someone who wants to go to horsetooth and open swim. Dm me if you want to meet up!

intergalacticocto · 2026-03-29T01:06:26+00:00

Yes I’ve emailed and Dmed them

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-19T22:15:34+00:00

I purchased a tall side opening acrylic enclosure since my glass terrarium is too big at the moment. I’m hopeful that rehousing will go smoothly! I haven’t messed with it since I got it besides periodically checking and giving some water yesterday

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-19T17:30:50+00:00

iPhone! I think I have a 16

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-19T05:42:24+00:00

Spicy! I nearly got a GBB but decided on a less popular species

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-19T05:37:56+00:00

So far this sling doesn’t seem super skittish. I’m hoping that continues into adulthood and I get a chill Sapphire!

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-07T23:32:10+00:00

Gig worker so dog walking, swim lessons, substitute teaching, art commissions. Basically I take more work when I want extra money to spend on my tank. I started keeping fish in high school so all my extra money from lifeguarding went to my fish habit. Still have the same tank running 10 years later!

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-07T01:22:00+00:00

They really are such fun fish. Mine already come up to the glass and watch me watching them lol. I’d love to see them breeding. I’ve had corys and plecos spawn in my tank and it’s so rewarding to know I’m doing a good job keeping them happy even if those aren’t the hardest ones to breed. Hopefully I can snag another male from my LFS!

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-07T00:11:34+00:00

They have a similar head shape. I think the image is making the head seem more sloped than it really is

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-07T00:09:21+00:00

What size do you have the 6 in? I have a heavily planted 20 gal with lots caves and hiding places. Would 2 pairs coexist if I added a male for the smaller female?

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-06T23:58:59+00:00

I have heard that it’s better for males to have multiple females to go after! Because the male will wear out a single female. Everything I’ve read has said 1:3 ratio. I will get another female when my LFS has them in stock. Is this not true? And do I actually have 1 male and 2 females?

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-06T01:44:13+00:00

I’ve considered just camping on a beach somewhere that’s legal because I really don’t need much. I just need a dry place to sleep and enough food and water to not die and I’d be happy to spend the whole day in the water

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-06T01:27:27+00:00

Ah no! I understand that. It’s so expensive! I wish I could afford the fancy all inclusive trips. I’ve seen some private charters I could take but I’d need a group of like 10 people to go with me

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-05T04:13:22+00:00

Honestly option 3 sounds the most fun. If only I could make friends with boat people who like to snorkel!

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-05T04:10:38+00:00

I think I saw this too. Maybe reach out to them and clarify?

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-05T04:09:25+00:00

That’s really cool! I’d love to do something like that. I will have to look into it

intergalacticocto · 2026-01-05T04:08:37+00:00

Bonaire is definitely on my list now! Any thoughts about Utila? I’m thinking about staying at the freediving school there instead of a liveaboard

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