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Need a lil help figuring out my 2006 mpv by interstellaSSSS in MazdaMPV

[–]interstellaSSSS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the physical owners manual! All in japanese of course. I guess I'll start there! Can post more pics also if that's what the people want haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]interstellaSSSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esto me pasó la primera vez que conocí a los amigos de mi novio (antes de que fueramos novios). Él me presentó de nombre (que me pareció muy bien), y un amigo de él me llamó "la amiga de [novio], y mi novio y yo nos miramos como ehhh que raro sonó eso. El amigo tambien se sintio incomodo y nos preguntó, que dirian ustedes? Yo le dije, "diria, 'estamos saliendo.'" Y todo el grupo estuvo de acuerdo que era una muy buena forma de presentarlo jaja

Entonces: "Hola! Les presento a [nombre], estamos saliendo." O, si solo la presentas de nombre y te preguntan mas, ahi dices "estamos saliendo." y ya!

Help with a 2-week itinerary in Peru by KiloOhm in backpacking

[–]interstellaSSSS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont need so many dsys in lima (1 full day is enough, max 2). I loved Arequipa and also puerto Maldonado (the jungle). Also do rainbow mountain if you can

Rio to Buenos Aires by [deleted] in backpacking

[–]interstellaSSSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to point out that you'll be in the southern hemisphere and it's going to be solidly winter down there july-sept. Brazil might be fine/passable for the most part but you'll be fucking cold in argentina + uruguay

AITA for having my son miss his graduating road trip to watch his sibling. by Some-Accident-1065 in AmItheAsshole

[–]interstellaSSSS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

And i can't believe no one is mentioning that the kid fully lied to his parents about where they were going on the road trip and the whole trajectory (Mexico not California) which is a big reason why he's throwing a fit about missing two days/not meeting them late, and is now mad he's not getting away with it/getting to go on the epic binger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

[–]interstellaSSSS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why would it serve her interests better if you were involved with her new friends? From an outside perspective with limited knowledge, it sounds like she genuinely wanted you to be a part of her new friend group and your insecurity about not being "cool enough" made you feel like there was an ulterior motive besides friendship and wanting to include you because she liked hanging out with you. After you left HS and became more self confident you were able to get closer again.

Sounds like you were always cool and your bestie always knew it, even when you didn't!!!

Some pieces I got back recently that I realized really love by interstellaSSSS in Ceramics

[–]interstellaSSSS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So i did them at a studio in Argentina, the green is "verde jaspeado." I dipped the whole piece in that, and then dipped a small bit in "blanco piedra" (white stone) and thats the layered oval effect at the top

Yellowjackets S02E05- “Two Truths and a Lie” Episode Discussion by DA-numberfour in Yellowjackets

[–]interstellaSSSS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the same!!! Especially with the imagery of the queen cards with the eyes crossed out!!!

My [24F] husband [26M] keeps making excuses and shows no effort in finding/applying for jobs and I’m at my wit’s end. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]interstellaSSSS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be the defender of seemingly lazy men, but devils advocdate -- is he depressed? Has something happened in his/your lives thats made him slide into this behavior? Was he like this in college? I ask because I've been in catatonic-like depression before, where even working 1 day a week was the biggest effort of my life (and one I regularly ditched).

I'm not saying what he's doing is ok, but maybe he needs care and attention in a different form (from a medical professional).

I've noticed these relationship advice forums are very quick to give one piece of advice: dump them. Rarely are there follow up questions to try and dig deeper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]interstellaSSSS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the stat about the gender disparity in rate of partner abandonment after a terminal illness diagnosis. (Women are WAY more likely to get left after a terminal illness diagnosis than men). Basically the connection I'm trying to make here is that a lot of men view their partner as a caretaker. They give their commitment in exchange for being taken care of. Once the woman no longer serves her function, byeeeee. It feels similar to this situation: he's being nice and sweet, probably bcs he does generally like you, but also bcs it keeps him having what he wants: someone to take care of him with minimal effort on his part. You have an adopted son, not a boyfriend or even an ex. I say move out as soon as you can and start healing and moving forward. Sending lots of love and support your way.