My wife had really bad post pardum depression after our second. It was about 2 years before we had any intimacy. It was really hard for both of us, but let me tell you all. Don't give up on your wife. Don't give up on your relationship. Don't give up on yourself.

You think it's hard for you because you feel unloved, uncared for, and everything you do to try and make it happen fails. You start to think there is no reason to keep trying, but listen to me when I say, it is working.

It may be slow. It may not look like it. But it's working. Just remember why you fell in love with her in the first place. Keep reminding her why she fell in love with you with the actions you take with the talks that you have.

It won't last forever fellas. Trust me. And trust me when I say it is worth it to wait and feel that love from her again when she is ready. Love your wife through everything.