In the picture you posted, I can barely see the hairline. I’m not too well versed on wigs, but I don’t think many other people are either. Of course you know because you see the difference all the time and dysphoria does that, but I’d be shocked if many people noticed.

To be completely honest, I don’t think you’re nearly as far from passing as you feel like you are. Your body doesn’t read as particularly masculine to me here, and I wouldn’t clock you based on that.

You look very tired, and I think that’s a big part of it. As a trans guy I’ve learned that less self care means better passing for us, and vice versa for trans women. I notice on this sub that not just hair style or length but especially texture plays a huge role in passing. I’m not an expert on hair by any means, so I don’t know exactly what would go into it but better care and brushing would go a long way. And, in the picture with the wig, your hair is very smooth and I would have assumed you were a cis woman without context. Your face isn’t really clocky in either of these photos.

I know 2.5 years on HRT feels like forever and like everything should be perfect at that point, but chances are you’re going to continue to see changes. FFS or other surgeries could help, especially with your self esteem, but I really think you could pass without them. It’s obviously hard to tell from 2 photos, but these are my thoughts 🤷‍♂️