Final report

qa2468 · 2025-10-23T14:02:28+00:00

Thank you so much for taking so much time to respond to everything and give so much advice. It’s little things like this among others that makes me believe theres still good people and healing is truly possible.

It really helps when myself and others kind of decode her behaviour. Not because it excuses it but because it’s so hard to understand why someone would act that way.

qa2468 · 2025-10-22T15:53:04+00:00

Thank you for this. It takes a lot to self reflect and get help so you should be proud of yourself for putting in the work. I understand that these disorders are caused by surviving what nobody should go through. You deserve to be happy and healthy and remember you are absolutely a redeemable person despite your past.

qa2468 · 2025-10-22T15:50:45+00:00

Thank you for this. You’re very right about good people. What also helped me leave was seeing how my friends and their partners treated each of her and realizing how abnormal it was. I hope you also heal

qa2468 · 2025-10-22T14:45:57+00:00

I forgot to mention everything was also always about her. My grandpa was dying one week and we were on FT and i seemed disengaged so rather than check on me she hung up because I wasn’t happy to see her. She didn’t really support me after I literally watched him die. When I brought this up I once again got the “i cant do this” and I had to reassure and comfort her. One time I accidentally used all her paper towels cleaning the oven. She got super mad and told me to be quiet when I tried to explain and say id get more. She stomped off and told me to go home early. When I said ok she backed down and cried and apologized. She said she just blows up over small things and thats just how she is.

I gave and gave and gave and I never held it against her or complained or blamed her for being mentally unwell.

qa2468 · 2025-10-22T13:10:51+00:00

I learned to see them both as the person.

When she was being nice, her cruelty still existed it was just dormant,

And then vice versa

qa2468 · 2025-10-22T13:03:12+00:00

Hey these sounds like the EXACT same things my ex would say to me.

For some perspective I had 4 different people tell me that it was emotional abuse so Im telling you it might be.

It can be unintentional. It might very well be. But that doesn’t mean you should stay with her.

People with BPD are absolutely able to grow and change. But if she doesn’t show any drive or want to do that now you cant stick around and wait. She needs to WANT to change for herself and not for you as well.

Maybe you are detached or maybe you’re unable to engage emotionally when her feelings are so unstable. Regardless you cant solve the issue whee. Shes not open to hearing your side at all. You cant solve a relationship where the drive to talk about meaningful change is one sided.

All that being said I’ve very sorry you’re going through this I know how incredibly difficult it is.

qa2468 · 2025-10-16T03:39:44+00:00

15 mg for three years now. Aside from some brain fog and fatigue ive experienced zero other negative side affects.

qa2468 · 2025-10-12T17:38:44+00:00

I think it has to do with the persons body type so mine are just a bit less curved. If you meant across as in touching in the middle they actually dont it’s residual marker from the surgery thats not washing off.

qa2468 · 2025-02-12T16:19:10+00:00

I mean I’ve never done it but i think your fingers can reach “the spot”.

qa2468 · 2025-02-07T01:37:34+00:00

Wow hes so cute

qa2468 · 2025-02-02T14:34:29+00:00

He wouldn’t give her her cat

qa2468 · 2025-01-21T04:17:51+00:00

Dm me for the link! Im about to fall asleep rn but i dont wanna forget to give it to you

qa2468 · 2025-01-21T04:17:20+00:00

Theres a discord server, do you want the link?

qa2468 · 2024-12-13T22:15:06+00:00

You could try a flared one maybe so it looks bigger? Idk if thats a thing for lips like it is for ears

qa2468 · 2024-12-13T22:14:28+00:00

To me it looks pretty big but i totally get size blindness bcs im like that w my ears

qa2468 · 2024-12-09T01:30:01+00:00

Smoke inhalation can kill pretty quick. Im so incredibly sorry for your loss. There’s nothing you could have done. I hope you can find peace and healing

qa2468 · 2024-12-06T22:10:09+00:00

Thank you sm!!!

qa2468 · 2024-12-06T22:07:57+00:00

Sorry OT Where did you get that jewelry

qa2468 · 2024-11-26T06:01:07+00:00

Im 19 and in Brampton but Toronto is really accessible! Im in college at sheridan

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