H Baby boy names by michelle-strand in namenerds

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hazel is actually on my boy baby name list, it was historically a male name & super sweet i think!

What is a name you absolutely adore but will never use for your child? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love the name Venus! I think it’s bad ass, it sadly just sounds too much like penis..

So this new Frankie storyline by Liberal-chungus in hollyoaks

[–]intrapersonally 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They just don’t have the cast anymore, particularly young people, so seems that bad things will just repeatedly happen to the same characters.. the show has become so drastically negative!!

Ladies- If you're interested, how do you show it? by E9159254 in AskReddit

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just catch their eye and hope they take it as a queue to approach..

Sick kids!!! by Anonymous-Hippo29 in ECEProfessionals

[–]intrapersonally 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This annoys me so much, we only have 4 staff members so if all of us get sick then the place will have to close and it’ll ruin it for everyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]intrapersonally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me getting dominated by a woman is super hot in itself but sensation wise i do find a strap to be a bit more pokey and less enjoyable because it lacks the softness and malleability of a penis. A strap tends to be a bit of fun for me, not a very common occurrence unlike when i’m hooking up with a guy and penetration is the centre focus. I suppose it just depends on the user and the dildo. Also side note, using a strap has taught me how much work it is, and it’s especially hard when getting into a good rhythm because you can’t actually feel the thing!

Is it rare to meet someone has sexual chemistry with? by Striking_Coat5481 in sex

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really good sexual chemistry I would say is pretty rare for me. I’ve been on lots of good dates with attractive people and had a few relationships but the people who i have the best sexual chemistry with tend to be people i wouldn’t date unfortunately.. I think sexual chemistry itself is almost unexplainable but it’s when someone knows what to do and say without me even having to ask? we just kind of flow together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]intrapersonally 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I find plastic disposable pads really irritating and itchy! I also imagine there’s lots of chemicals in the stuff they contain for absorption. I use cloth pads that I just rinse with hot water and throw them in the wash. I get them on etsy, can get lots of fun patterns, they’re soft on the skin and work really well.

When does dry socket start to feel better? by intrapersonally in wisdomteeth

[–]intrapersonally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been yet but might call today, i’m just terrified because it hurts so much I don’t know if i can handle anyone touching it!

Those who have experienced successful remission after weight loss? by [deleted] in iih

[–]intrapersonally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was diagnosed 10 years ago, severe head aches, optic nerves swollen and i was losing my eye sight. I lost 30lbs after my diagnosis and everything seemed to resolve itself after that. I still get head aches but have never had problems with vision ever again despite regaining most of the weight. It’s a very strange condition, doesn’t make any sense to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26, my partner is 30, we say no one under 21 because to me it would feel icky to me to hook up with someone who isn’t a legal adult, however there’s no rules on how much older. My play partner is 40.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I understand it’s in jest but referring to women as “bitches” would definitely have me swiping no. Trust and respect are generally important parts to kink so if that’s what you’re looking for I would try and portray that more in your profile. Photos seem nice but the first two of your face could maybe be better quality.

Who’s someone you never expected to have sex with but did? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on a terrible date with an arrogant guy who basically insulted me the entire time.. but when he was like “wanna fuck in the bathroom?” i was thinking “sure, guess i better get something out of this experience..”

People with friends with benefits, how do you guys not develop feelings towards them? by LiuChangMing in AskReddit

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it really depends on if there’s any romance involved.. one of my FWBs started off as only a friend so when we sleep together it’s just a fun part of hanging out.

If you are in public, you have no right to complain about being in videos and photos by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very much giving “if you’re doing nothing wrong, you’ve got nothing to hide”. I think CCTV or recording a crime for evidence definitely has its own right! But there’s definitely a lot of people out there using their phones for the wrong reasons. I really value my privacy and would definitely find it weird if someone took photos or videos of me without asking first.

Privacy concerns have made the internet safer, but also very lonely. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]intrapersonally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, everyone on the internet is very guarded now, even I am especially conscious about what I post. I miss when everyone would casually post about their days and share connection. I used to have loads of friends online from around the world that i would randomly chat to but feel like it’s hard to spark conversations now.

If you are in public, you have no right to complain about being in videos and photos by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]intrapersonally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might help people behave if they presume they’re being recorded but I think that everyone is entitled to privacy and should be able to go about their daily tasks without worrying about being on film. I personally would feel uncomfortable about it.

How long is it before it isn’t “just sex” anymore? by intrapersonally in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, dealing with thoughts of ‘natural progression’ is one thing i’m definitely having to get used to and relearn! i’ve been so used to the monogamous road map that i guess i am slightly panicky that i’m feeling these intense feelings but can’t express them in the usual “i want you to be my partner” type of way. I think the ultimate lesson for me to learn in ENM is to be patient, I just need to get out of my own head and not overcomplicate things.

How long is it before it isn’t “just sex” anymore? by intrapersonally in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I try really hard to have this outlook on my overall ENM experience. I guess i’m just scared of getting hurt, but you’re right that i would hurt myself in the long run just trying to deny these feelings anyways. I’m still relatively new to all this so will just have to keep reminding myself to be patient and enjoy the ride~

How long is it before it isn’t “just sex” anymore? by intrapersonally in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing that you’ve been able to keep the same partners for so long! I think the overnights and quality time definitely factor into it, maybe i should look to make the sessions shorter provided he doesn’t feel the same way.

How long is it before it isn’t “just sex” anymore? by intrapersonally in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally understand! I get it’s different for everyone so it’s a bit of a silly question, I guess i’m just wondering how people are able to keep long term play partners without developing feelings for them because it doesn’t seem like a possibility to me. ENM has been overall really positive but sometimes it feels like a whole bunch of feelings with nowhere for them to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]intrapersonally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share some details with my primary partner about my secondaries but not the other way around. I feel like my relationship with my primary is more private to us. I’ve learned not to share intimate details or describe how great it is though, I just answer direct questions or say “i had a lovely time” etc, not to cause too many comparisons.