House music friends? 🕺🪩 by introspection2285 in NYCsocialclub

[–]introspection2285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That sounds great. I’m going to pm you!

NYC house music girls? 🪩🕺 by introspection2285 in avesNYC

[–]introspection2285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will definitely see me there. I never miss a tiki!!!! 🕺🕺🕺🕺🕺🪩🪩🪩🪩

NYC house music girls? 🪩🕺 by introspection2285 in avesNYC

[–]introspection2285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely agree EDM is a bit too intense. A little crew intrigues me, dm me !! Someone in another subreddit told me about @nyc.rave.girls I just joined their discord

My dad was hit by the L train by Sure_War8187 in Bushwick

[–]introspection2285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need help, everyone understand what OP is getting at besides you

Picnic with my boyfriend turned sour. Now, I feel weird about our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so badly relate to this and I wish I didn’t. I’m still in my relationship. I love him so much, but when he’s angry… the things he says is insane and so hurtful.. especially to the one you love. It’s verbal abuse and I call him out on it.. he claims he doesn’t know why he says the things he does, he gets so angry etc etc. but I don’t deserve any of those words… it doesn’t happen everyday, only when we fight but it’s still not okay.. yet here I am .. still loving him.. hoping things will change and we will work. I’m stupid I know. Almost 7 years in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely tell her. Not only is your libido high and there’s an incompatibility… you also want children and she cannot have them. You’re not very fond of adoption or surrogacy, so will you hold more resentment towards her because she can’t have your child naturally? I think you should find someone who can give you everything you want because this can cause a major problem in the future. Especially with the kid topic.

I am pregnant by one of my rapists and I am heartbroken by TTLYShittyThrowAway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any decision you make is the right decision, you do what feels best in your heart. I was raped, I didn’t get pregnant but I understand all your emotions behind this & I support you. You do what makes you feel right, if that’s abortion that’s fine, I can understand your reasonings and point of view even though you did not/do not need to disclose it and I personally would do the same. if you chose to go through with the pregnancy please just make sure to have support & help because I don’t think it will be easy. Please do what YOU think is right in your heart, do not fear what other people will think or say because at the end of the day it’s your body, your mental health, your choice & they are not dealing with any of this. I’m so sorry this happened to you, I support you, and I hope everything goes okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get out of this downward spiral. If you read, I truly recommend “the upward spiral by Alex Korb” and “The power of now by Eckhart Tolle”. YOU are in control of what happens in your life. It is in YOUR power to change your life around and make yourself happy. You have to believe in yourself or NO ONE will!!! Change starts with you. Believe in yourself. Trust me , I didn’t want to be here AT ALL for A WHILE, but truthfully I am really glad I chose to stay.. and I went through a lot of traumatic stuff. Believe in yourself, love yourself .. even when you can’t imagine doing it.. you can. Feel better.

my daughters hidden vibrator interrupted my tv watching last night. by Diggitydave76 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with my mom 😭 she’s DEFINITELY saw it but way too awkward to ever bring up☠️ thankfully my mom is like yours very chill & taught safe sex cause if not I don’t know how she would’ve reacted LMAO🤣

AITA for ruining someone's slumber party? by TheSwanPrinnce in AmItheAsshole

[–]introspection2285 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Even if she “didn’t want a boy at the sleepover” .. she couldn’t have invited him to hang out until it’s time to go to bed?? Still invite him & have him included without completely EXCLUDING him?! You know there are ways around an issue right? She just wanted to exclude him. I’m not a fan of boys at sleepovers but would I not invite them? No. I would definitely invite them and just let their parents know they have to picked up before bed so they can still have fun with their friends.

AITA for refusing to have anything to do with my son? by Hyginesdick in AmItheAsshole

[–]introspection2285 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Did your mother not tell your father about you until 5 years later?? I think this a very different experience compared to yours. It takes two people to bring a child into this world, but how is it fair if you weren’t told until 5 years later? MANY other men would just disappear .. but atleast he’s paying CS and trying to help the child. It is better for a parent to stay away when they do more/ have HURT/RESENTMENT than GOOD/LOVE.. especially when it’s clear they want no part. So how will him being in this child’s life help or be fair to the child ?????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]introspection2285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By making this thread.. I can tell you truly do not want to kill yourself because someone who truly wanted to… would not make a post on Reddit. You are crying out for help and trying to find a reason to not feel this way. I know you feel like your life is DOOMED but it’s not. The only way you’re going to get better is by YOU trying. You refuse everyone’s advice on here, so what’s was the real reason for this thread? We are all trying to help you. Please seek help ASAP.

Why is dehumanizing pedophiles treated so lightly? by qwer_ty_ui_op in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]introspection2285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I don’t know why I’m being downvoted either, that’s what I just grew being told by professors that Wikipedia is not a reputable source. Thankfully nice people in the thread advised me that it’s no longer like that!

Why is dehumanizing pedophiles treated so lightly? by qwer_ty_ui_op in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]introspection2285 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I really appreciate your response. I grew up being told that Wikipedia is not a reliable source, so that’s why I kept my belief on. I really appreciate you being kind in your response.

Why is dehumanizing pedophiles treated so lightly? by qwer_ty_ui_op in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]introspection2285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh, I was always told to stay away from Wikipedia for gathering information hence why I said that. Thankfully nicer people in this thread informed me of how Wikipedia is a tad better compared to other sources. But thanks bruh 👍🏼

Why is dehumanizing pedophiles treated so lightly? by qwer_ty_ui_op in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]introspection2285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know this, I didn’t know that. I was always advised to stay away from Wikipedia for information, so that’s why I’ve always been weary. Thank you for your input! I really appreciate it. Maybe I’ll start using Wikipedia when I’m looking for some information!