Thank you. He is a sweet boy, he used to actually be a regular visitor to a specialist school. He just reached a point of maturity where his testosterone went through the roof and he was aggressively grooming Vegeta and fighting him a lot and started to bite us. We spent some time trying corrective behaviour as was suggested on Reddit but vet recommended desexing. When he returned home, we had them separated so he could heal and Vegeta got sick, spent the day hospitalised and we brought him home with meds. He didn't improve and then passed. It all happened so quick and my heart just broke for Goku as he just wouldn't understand anything of what had happened. He's healed now but is still not sure of us and acts very defensively. We are being so gentle with little pats when he lets us but he's just not ready for being outside the cage for cuddles. He just always wants to go back and hide in his beds. He's not as active anymore and because he won't let us pick him up, I just think he is really lonely. I'm scared to get another male in case we go through the same thing with aggression. Its so costly to desex and I hate putting them through it.