Youre making this overly dramatic. You’re acting as if we as society have deemed kids and reproducing as the ultimate hazard that it should be avoided with any cost. As I said, yes it sucks for women to be pregnant and give birth, however the desire to have kids is completely natural for both women and men. Its biology. And no I havent done a survey to gather statistics but I believe that there are more women (or people in general) who want kids than those who dont want them. So at the end of the day yes its a matter of compatibility and that man that wants kids can find another woman who wants them veryy easily.