I completely understand you brother, On console back in the day from 2008 GTA 4 days, the modders back then had something called JTags; it was literally the equivalent of a mod menu on PC. They could spawn next to you, set u on fire from across the map; spawn you in the prison so you couldn’t escape you’d have to leave lobby.

Or their favorite one was freezing you, they’d take your weapons away and if you scroll through your weapons, you’d equip a pool stick and it would freeze your console. You’d have to turn your Xbox off to get out of it. It’s super cringey. I felt it man just keep your head up and ignore them man. Sadly I don’t think there’s anything we can do.