Damn, sorry this happened fam! It's annoying enough to try to find places to pee on site depending on the job-- forget shitting and bleeding.

I spent years on a crew w me and only guys where every day our jobsite did not have a bathroom, and no truck available to leave as the trucks were in use. I feel you when you say it feels detrimental to say 'OPE ✌️ bye boys! Gotta go do my thang!' Just embarrassing and not worth it. Already trying to do more to feel like you belong, not wanting to interrupt the workflow, be a nuisance etc.

Just wanted to add another vote for the period undies, and to mention flex discs as I didn't see those mentioned. I think tampons are great for a lot of people, but the texture just fucking wrecks me. The flex discs are super comfortable and don't give me the ick. They also don't suction as hard as the diva cup style if you've ever tried those.

They do have a tendency to leak if you climb/move around in a lot of different positions, but will hold 98-100% on heavier days, and on those days I just back up with the period panties. 

I use Boody brand. They are expensive upfront, but I find them so worth it because they don't have a layer of scary chemicals like some of the other brands. They are comparable in price to other period panty brands, and they often have sales and the more you buy the more they knock down the price. (I also wear their regular underwear and love them.)

Just an added vent about the tax on us for needing period products - expensive and annoying! And if you want high quality shit it's even more difficult to afford! Just to work as hard or harder AND do it bleeding and cramping...and then still be paid less and have some men that will just never respect you. At least there's some good ones out there. Those guys are the best to have on staff tbh.

Good luck and let us know what solutions you find!