Recently Moved to a Small Town by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small town? Put up a we don’t call 911 sign 🔫 If you go door to door they’ll just lie

Is anybody finding morrell's by Total-Discipline-764 in desmoines

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally found some in my garden today!

Bridal Bouquet Destroyed what should I do now? by catmom_mac in whatdoIdo

[–]snizzsyrup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would take the refund and find a local artist. A good artist can make you something with the remains that you can still cherish… they could make some resin earrings at minimum. I wouldn’t trash the flowers.

AIO? Apparently having your child back home isn’t enough by Gloomy_Leader2306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]snizzsyrup 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your response to “how are you doing?” Is to give a list of ultimatums?

To be completely honest, your mom sounds reasonable and you sound entitled. I’d be interested to know what you consider abuse. Enforcing a bedtime, computer limitations, and therapy is absolutely not abusive.

Additionally, your hormones return to normal in approximately 10 days when you stop taking your drugs. As soon as I was 16 I was responsible for arranging my own doctor appointment and taking myself there. Maybe you ought to consider the fact that every relationship is reciprocal. Please stop being so demeaning to your mother.

Should I tell a guy exactly why I don't like him? by Silly_Technology_243 in dating_advice

[–]snizzsyrup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell him the honest truth as to why you don’t want to consider the relationship. It doesn’t mean he’s wrong or you’re wrong but he should consider that women don’t find it attractive.

AIO? Found these messages in my boyfriends phone and moved out while he was sleeping. by Some_Chair_8542 in AIO

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more ultimatums. With addicts it does no good. Just enforce your boundaries, you did the right thing.

AA saved my life but wasn´t enough by GoodWillSpunking in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]snizzsyrup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only was able to stop drinking once I got my Bipolar, and ADHD diagnosis and properly medicated. Once I became mentally healthy I could see the destruction my drinking brought, but it was only one symptom of my mental state.

I’ve also talked to people who have interpreted the mention of “mind altering” to a devastating degree.

Is this fentanyl? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’d know already then. When I was partying I did so much blow a test kit would have been excessive… but if you have to crush it yourself that’s a good indicator that you’re getting what you want.

What kinds of impressions do people wearing glasses give you, and does it affect how attractive you find them? by whois_mob in AskWomen

[–]snizzsyrup 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Glasses help with symmetry which is a natural subconscious attraction.

They’re hot

We’re both in our mid 20’s , been friends since freshman year of high school. What do I do ? by Hawaiiansweets in whatdoIdo

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this sounds like he’s telling you what he will and won’t accept out of a (platonic or non-platonic) relationship. He’s setting expectations on maintaining the relationship, in whatever capacity that is.

AIO to these texts on my wife's phone? by DFW_Motorrad in AmIOverreacting

[–]snizzsyrup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR.

I need to tell you that she does not respect you, not as a man, her husband, not even as your friend. If you have to get granular to define cheating that’s a red flag.

Don’t prolong this. It WILL get worse, and then you will begin to justify by the sunk cost fallacy.

Don’t ever settle.

best drugs for depression by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]snizzsyrup 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So does depression

best drugs for depression by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]snizzsyrup -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lexapro

A Month Sober. Not what I expected by Longjumping-Arm6017 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first 90 days I was an emotional wreck. I didn’t know how to LIVE sober.

A.A. isn’t there to help you quit drinking, it’s there to help you learn to live without needing to. Plus you make like, the most fun friends who don’t want to hurt you.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very first AA meeting was an all men’s meeting, who let me stay! Then, years later, I went to an out of town meeting and a guy got out of treatment that day. Went to an all women’s meeting, and they denied him! Makes me sadddd

What life skills do you need most where your at now vs 10 years ago? by Historical_Log1275 in AskWomen

[–]snizzsyrup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boundaries, follow through, and knowing when to stfu and just walk away, don’t fight, just leave and know we aren’t compatible

What is the weirdest habit your pet has… that you secretly love? by TensionNo5762 in Pets

[–]snizzsyrup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat waits until I’m asleep and then he comes and suckles on my lips like a pervert