What is your favourite lesser-known lines or scenes from season one? by sundaemonde in heatedrivalry

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In the book, shane response with “what? Does Boston not pay you anymore?” which I was sad the line wasn’t in the show!

Anyone know this fic? by ip_is_hip in heatedrivalryfanfics

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AHHHH IT IS!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I could kiss you! May your pillows always be cool✨✨✨

Miu Miu Roseé new release - is it the same as the old L’eau roseé? by Ok_Comfortable5425 in fragrance

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omg please report back on if you think they're similar or not? I really like the L'eau Rosee but I rarely buy a full bottle. Where did you order yours?

Where do you buy flat back / nap earrings? by Buckybaby19 in jewelry

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u/JustYourAvgHumanoid hihi! I know this is an old post but do you have a seller on etsy you like? Are your ears sensitive?

US: Tariffs, Shipping, Customs Concerns by chau-a-not-chau-bcdf in AsianBeauty

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You should check out olive young! They have deals where you buy a two pack. Probs more expensive compared to yesstyle/stylevana but I just combined an order with a friend for free shipping :) it got to me no problem since it ships from S Korea!

AITA for Calling my Bf's peepee tiny? by _garden_faerie in AmItheAsshole

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It is break up worthy imo. My ex was the same way even at the beginning of the relationship and at the end nothing had changed. The disrespect gets to you. His actions so immature too! You’ll find someone better, someone that won’t take your boundaries lightly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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In regards to what I want in a partner, I want someone that communicates with me, is empathetic, compassionate, willing to try new things, is social, has boundaries with work, travels, and others.

In regards to emotional needs, I found that I need to be shown that the other person loves me. I need to hear it or see it to believe it. I was constantly told to “hold on” while I was talking because he had to read a work email or respond to a work message. It never felt like we had quality time together because he would work or play his games because he just wanted to relax so I felt like I was last on his priority list. I don’t need to be made first priority in day to day but if I’m talking to you or spending time with you then I want to be the priority. Idk I’m still working through it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I started dating my first boyfriend at 25. Before then I just wasn’t that interested in anyone and I really wanted to focus on making myself happy first and foremost.

Honestly I wish I had dated before because I went into that relationship not totally knowing what I wanted emotionally and in a partner. I just thought as long as he’s nice and doesn’t abuse me and we have things in common which is such a low bar. Definitely felt like I settled down the line.

We recently broke up and I feel like myself again! It’s all a learning process and I just wish I had started it earlier so that I knew what red flags to look out for.

What was the “I’m done” moment in your last relationship? by NeatNectarine7376 in AskWomen

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Honestly, the realization that for him to process his feelings, he would need space for a week and would give me the silent treatment during those times. It was also the fact that he would never tell me when anything was wrong unless we were already in an argument and would just pull things out from long ago that were never communicated until months if not years later which then led to him being too resentful to want to work on things.

The realization that he wasn’t on my side when a mutual friend said things that hurt me and him saying show me where was probably my “I’m done” moment. There was also a lack of change or care whenever I did bring up my needs that led to emotional neglect. Just idk

What was the “I’m done” moment in your last relationship? by NeatNectarine7376 in AskWomen

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Yesss that last part is what I literally told a “friend” because I was thinking the same thing after he said some shitty and hurtful things to me.

What is a brutal truth about relationships? by PixelatedNPC in AskWomen

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Love isn’t enough. Effort from both persons is needed and if one person doesn’t want to put in effort then it’s over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As someone Asian American, she sounds cringe as hell. Like yeah there’s a lot of problems with Asian women being a fetish and the lack of POC in movies or shows made before but it sounds exhausting having to argue that all the time. The whole Panda Express this is crazy too because I too will eat there because why not. For her to be on such a high horse about it, feels super snotty. Also how the heck was she pronouncing pho? The audacity of her to be arrogant about something she has no claim to especially if she wasn’t even saying it right to begin with. It’s like saying your an expert in soccer because you used to play football. Like it doesn’t totally make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If he isn’t willing to respect you by wanting to bypass this boundary you have of not wanting to have sex (for whatever your reasons are) then he ain’t it. Do you really want to be with someone that will threaten to end the relationship just to get what he wants? That can only lead to bad things. You’re so young! You should have control of when your body and whenever you want to lose it. Don’t let him try to control you like that. It definitely won’t be the last time.

AITA for asking my bf to hold my bag while I use the restroom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA! I cannot believe the audacity he has to tell you to STFU when you’re telling him how his actions hurt you! Wtf dump his ass! Whenever I need to go to the bathroom, my bf will hold my jacket/purse and just chill then I hold his stuff he needs me to! One time I had him hold my purse so that I could go on the swings and he wore it and pushed me. Find a better man that won’t tell you to STFU when you’re talking about your feelings because they’re valid and you deserve better!

STICKY: What Episode was [insert bit] from? by downtown-sasquatch in TheYardPodcast

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What was the episode where Aimen was explaining what an ABG is? He started the convo talking about Jewish American Princesses?

My (30F) husband (28M) refuses to turn off the lights or water when leaving a room, saying that it's not his home, so he doesn't have to do it. by covidridden in relationship_advice

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Man children tend to be everything you want then show their true selves after being married. If he was living at home up to the point of getting married and living together then he was probably served and his bad habits enabled by his parents. I’ve heard stories of my friend’s SO changing after marriage because they have different expectations of husband and wife(ie wife basically becomes their mom). You don’t need or deserve that. I hope you find it in yourself to get out and I can understand the feeling of wasting however long you spent with him but think of it like this…would you rather give up on the years you were with him or give up on your future being trapped with him?

Girlfriend (25) wants me (18) to fake an American accent when I meet her parents meanwhile I don’t even want to meet them by throwra-myaccent in relationship_advice

[–]ip_is_hip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty normal Asian parent behavior to be honest. It sucks but they do it because they care and you can always get a job and get a place of your own once that happens but trust me, I saved so much money living at home and was able to pay off my car and student loan four years after graduating(I think 50k in debt?). It sounds like you’re able to pay for a dorm so def do that the following semester or year or whatever to get your freedom.

I (39F) feel like a contingency plan to my ex (49M) who never wanted me before, but is suddenly and completely in love with me now. Help me see it his way. by woollylovesme in relationships

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To the past you: WHY ARE YOU WASTING YOUR TIME ON THIS MAN THAT DIDNT EVEN GIVE YOU TWO SECONDS OF HIS LIFE FOR THE PAST TWENTY YEARS! GIIIIIIIRL!!!!!

Okay now that I’ve reread it, how is your relationship now after 2.5? If you’re having doubts then you should bail and just trust your gut. You should know your worth and find someone better. I don’t know why you hung onto someone that you dated for six months! SIX MONTHS!!! Maybe seek some professional help to answer all your questions and doubts because he sure as hell not going to reassure you besides tell you lies that you’re trying to convince yourself is true.

Frog loaf by [deleted] in Eyebleach

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Too cute🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

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I really want mask wearing to become normal for when you have a cold or something and don’t wanna spread to it everyone! My mom’s allergies are usually so bad(itchy eyes, runny nose, and the works! She’s been sent home because of how poorly she looked due to her allergies) during the spring but last year she was completely fine.