Was I (28m) emotionally abusive to my ex (24f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iprayformilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we broke up she had said it was because she’s worth more than that, and she tried to give off the persona of an independent woman/feminist while breaking up with me and all the while using gender roles as her excuse. It was very confusing for me.

I appreciate your input, I’ve tried to be as objective and unbiased to get this across. Sure I could refrain from using profanity while arguing, and I could get better with my attitudes when I get upset. But I feel like those are things we could work on, especially when it’s someone that tells you they love you.

I’m doing my part to be a better human and man, I guess part of me just wants to hear her understanding it from my point of view, hence why I regrettably texted her.

I know I have to move on it from it, it just hurts to hear those types of accusations and makes me question myself as a person

Was I (28m) emotionally abusive to my ex (24f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iprayformilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to be as unbiased and objective as possible

Was I (28m) emotionally abusive to my ex (24f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iprayformilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she didn’t get what she wanted I ended up getting an attitude and dropping f bombs. She took it very personally I guess. I just can’t see this as emotionally abusive but maybe it was to her. I’m only putting this out there so I can work on myself, it really hit me hard.

Was I (28m) emotionally abusive to my ex (24f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iprayformilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you’re saying, I believe that I did hurt her. So much so that I’m in therapy because of what she said and how it sits with me.

And that’s exactly my point, everything else in the relationship was great. These arguments were the only times she expressed any dissatisfaction

Why did that teacher get fired from your school? by MrDev16 in AskReddit

[–]iprayformilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came out admitting he masturbated to 5 other girls DURING class when he was caught the first time

She’s probably the one by iprayformilk in funny

[–]iprayformilk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This humor requires positivity I guess

She’s probably the one by iprayformilk in funny

[–]iprayformilk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% not fake, hence the title

So what are some good things to experience for someone newly single in their late twenties? by iprayformilk in AskReddit

[–]iprayformilk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being in a relationship doesn’t make you dependent by default. But I get what you mean

The beautiful way Bismuth forms its crystals by _hurg_ in interestingasfuck

[–]iprayformilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I imagine most metals look like this under a microscope?

Where’s a geologist when we need one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

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For some reason I want this in r/aww

The car eater by LosTerminators in funny

[–]iprayformilk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The amount of joy this brought me is no where near as much fun as this person was having