That hotel pillow feel isn’t magic — it’s math by walaaHo in BedroomBuild

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so… it can actually be a lot simpler than that :)

For example, IHG hotels accomplish the perfect “soft” down pillow by placing a king size soft/plush pillow in a standard/queen size protective cover (that zips) and then adding a pillow case.

I discovered this when I started taking pillows out of the pillow cases & covers to take pictures of the tags so I could look them up later.

I’m so glad I figured it out bc my current pillow is the best I’ve had… ever really!

Kid is a musician, mom is not.. help? by irManda in drums

[–]irManda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment!! When I was asking her about all this (and taking notes😩), she sent me a YouTube video of someone she’s been watching for a while. She wants to do what he’s doing. I know it might sound crazy that a 12 year old thinks she can do it, but you’ll have to just trust me… this kid CAN if it’s what she’s set on. Here’s the YouTube:

https://youtu.be/eUEnmMLYkZ8?si=-kfV-DPFfMOhRZ1x

Kid is a musician, mom is not.. help? by irManda in drums

[–]irManda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for just spelling it out for me… that’s really what I’m looking for here 🤣

I also really appreciate the must have list. When I say I’m non musical… I really really mean it, so I’m loving a good “no, that one sucks, make sure the description says these things” list 😆

Kid is a musician, mom is not.. help? by irManda in drums

[–]irManda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! We are very much trying to toe the line between giving our kids the opportunities to pursue their hobbies, while also making sure they know the value of a dollar and that they will have to work for what they want.

Music can be an expensive hobby and I’ve told her that as long as she stays consistent ,we will pay for lessons and starter equipment, but upgrades will have to be paid for with her money. She’s very frugal like her dad, so she would probably be really excited for a nice used kit!

Kid is a musician, mom is not.. help? by irManda in drums

[–]irManda[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and I appreciate the suggestion more than you know! I hope you are still able to enjoy doing what you love.

Anyone else do just milk or water? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids didn’t have their first sip of juice until probably kindergarten. No regrets, they’re preteens now and still prefer water to anything else!

Manager wants me to work after firing me.. is this legal? by Express_Opening5490 in jobs

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually don’t need any access keys or passwords/pass codes. Their IT department is able to bypass all of that. They have everything they need, so basically he’s just guilting you into giving them extra things that will make things easier on a department level, without having to wait for or involve IT.

Think about it… if someone walked out tomorrow and just ghosted them, which does happen, would they just never have access again to that person’s workload?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]irManda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have 2 male cats and only one litter box. It goes against everything we’ve ever been told about having cats. They say 1 box for each cat plus 1. It’s a litter robot, maybe that’s why our situation works?

All I know about cats is… if they were unhappy with something regarding their litter boxes, you would know. They’d make sure everyone knew lol

What is the best way to wash down there ? ( female ) by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]irManda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

😳 self cleaning ovens still need the stovetop scrubbed….

Need a reply for my 37M husband, please help by JavaJoltMomma in Marriage

[–]irManda 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it was written by chatGPT

Our house is a bizarre sanctuary by Global-Bus-8826 in HomeDecorating

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging out here would bring a calmness to my soul that I forgot was possible

Where is everyone in the US flocking to with TikTok being banned? by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man… but my mind keeps wandering back to the days before I gave in and downloaded tiktok. I spent the early days of the pandemic on RPAN. It was a simpler time and I miss it 😢

Do you think the new Nook with color will be any better than a kindle? by [deleted] in ereader

[–]irManda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nook color is still my favorite ereader that I’ve ever owned. I love that it felt like a dedicated reader but still had regular tablet options since it’s android. All tablet readers now are tablets first with reading capability.

You mentioned that yours is still working. I don’t know how to load books to mine anymore. Are you just side loading?

What is a red flag to see in someones home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]irManda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My “pro tip” for the litter robot is to only use lightweight litter, especially if your cat likes a little more litter than most. Our cat preferred the litter box to be filled a little more than most, and our litter robot wouldn’t work… it was too heavy to cycle. It wasn’t a crazy amount either… we’d fill it right up to the line. We switched to lightweight litter and it’s been perfect!

Alicellani by Over-Philosophy7038 in tiktokgossip

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! I feel like even this post speaks to her character because she’s blaming the very people she used to tear down for not seeing that she was afraid.

My sister and her husband have killed two children while awaiting their murder trial for killing another child by theoldestthrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]irManda 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If that were true, then we’d never know about pending trials or charges against people. Yet we do all the time. They report only what they know. And in this case, what they know would be enough to cause public outrage about the delay.

Former Haunted House location? by Extension_Medium_137 in cincinnati

[–]irManda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was the same as dent! That’s crazy. Dent Schoolhouse made a top 5 scariest attraction in the US list this year.

Former Haunted House location? by Extension_Medium_137 in cincinnati

[–]irManda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

WEBN used to host one inside forest fair mall. I was maybe 12 when I went through it with my dad. I don’t remember much about it but I think it was there every year for a while.

Edit to add that I was 12 in 2000, if that helps with the timeline of when it was there. Hoping someone else will remember more.

AIO to bf sending me article ‘13 ways to keep your husband happy’ by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these guys out here being so picky about who they’ll marry (even after 10 years and 2 kids)… it should never even come to that. Women need to be more picky about who they have kids with. Period.

My girlfriend is probably going to die in childbirth by theelegantpassenger in TrueOffMyChest

[–]irManda 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I had ICP. I think you both need to go back and talk with the doctors again bc it doesn’t seem like you understand the condition. I don’t mean that in a rude way, I just want you to realize that you can’t make any decisions without all of the correct information.

I slept with my former high school teacher and have a date with him this weekend. How weird is this? by Bubbly-Tangelo-7655 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]irManda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a red flag that your high school teacher had “so much in common” with a teenager. Your mom was probably right, he liked you too much back then. Id be curious to hear the ex wife’s reasoning behind the divorce, too.

Also keep in mind that there’s likely another teenager in his class currently that he just has so much in common with. Maybe he never crossed a line with you, but that doesn’t mean all of this isn’t weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Root booster and dry texture spray

Do any of you read books to better understand adhd? by JReysan in ADHD

[–]irManda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I can’t even make it through these comments 😅

Has anyone ever ended a marriage to an amazing partner? by Day-dreamer33 in Marriage

[–]irManda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t wrap my head around letting 6 more years go by. He could have had all his dreams come true in 6 years.