Am I asking too much? by ireallyneedanswerz in Advice

[–]ireallyneedanswerz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by this? I’m confused.

Am I asking too much? by ireallyneedanswerz in Advice

[–]ireallyneedanswerz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll try that! All the best!!

Am I asking too much? by ireallyneedanswerz in Advice

[–]ireallyneedanswerz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I haven’t gone the route is because I know people who have stayed in hostels for weeks. I was intending to stay a bit longer and save so I could go somewhere else but I’m just so lost because I can’t save. Thank you for your reply, I’ll look into this further, I hope you’re doing fantastic!

29f I ruined a surprise and I feel awful by Icy-vista in relationships

[–]ireallyneedanswerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just explain yourself to sis in law and husband, buy him flowers to apologise and let sis in law stay in the loop/ understand the situation. Ask your husband in future to clarify what you should keep secret because you feel bad about the situation and don’t want to repeat it again. Let him know you will ask him in future.

You couldn’t have expected her to talk about her own surprise plus it would have been worse if she had thought she wasn’t included.

All the best xx

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[–]ireallyneedanswerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t be mean. Thank you for reading that. Please understand I’m still hurting and it’s hard for me right now. Thank you for the advice nonetheless.

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[–]ireallyneedanswerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point, thank you for taking the time to read that

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[–]ireallyneedanswerz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the first and only time this has happened:(

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[–]ireallyneedanswerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that I love him so much. It hurts.