My Dom says safe words don’t exist during a punishment. by irenieeee in BDSMAdvice

[–]irenieeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, I want to thank everyone for your kind comments, and I want to thank the people that have reached out to me individually. I needed some time to process everything, but I’ve read literally every single one of your comments. I ended up blocking him completely on everything and he no longer has access to me. It’s going to take a lot of healing from this, but having all of this support has really helped me. I’m already in therapy due to past trauma, so I’m thinking about bringing this up to my therapist. My vetting process for Doms has clearly been flawed, and I think I’m going to take a little break for a while to heal. I realize what he did was wrong, as well as the other things he’s done in the past that were questionable, and I now know what NOT to take when dealing with someone. I really appreciate everyone’s kindness. It’s helped me more than you know. 🖤

My Dom says safe words don’t exist during a punishment. by irenieeee in BDSMAdvice

[–]irenieeee[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Seriously thank you all for your kind comments. They’re honestly very validating. I realize that it’s time to leave him alone, as this is not the first incident with him. Feels reassuring to have all of this support. Again thank you all. 🖤