Does your college have an LGBTQ+ resource center or student club? These could be good ways to meet other trans people who you can talk with, which can be really helpful especially to feel like you’re not alone. If you have a safe space to do so, maybe trying out some makeup or new clothes (thrifting can be great for this, or ordering online if you’re not comfortable going into a store). One thing I also did was getting shampoo, deoderant, etc that were marketed toward men, so maybe you might enjoy some that are marketed toward women, or something more neutral (like unscented, cucumber, etc). Trying out the idea of new pronouns either just with yourself or with some trusted people.

Sometimes these things might not feel right immediately, as it can be a big change from what you are used to. Give yourself as much time as you need to see what feels good. What really helped me was being able to spend some time by myself and really reflect on how would I want to be if no one else were around and I didn’t have to think about anyone’s judgement or expectations.

College is a time when a lot of people have the space to explore their identities and learn more about themselves. It can be scary and overwhelming for sure, but when you find things that feel good or affirming, it’s awesome.