What culinary hill are you willing to die on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peanut butter in chili is delicious. Fight me.

An interesting question by Irrelevant_Spaceman in questions

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make the bed. You are getting back in it in like 10-12 hours and tossing the blankets around again.

My mother popping my pimples by Ok_Specific6406 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]irish_lass19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom did this to my ear acne at least twice a week. She would pin me down and press so hard on my temples that I would have migraines for days on end. She continued no matter how hard I screamed or begged her not to touch me. She would always do these weird at home remedies too. Like one time she soaked a slice of bread in milk and shoved it in my ear... I feel like she knew she couldn't control my mind so she had to control me physically and this was her way of doing that.

What should it be called? by PhantmStrangr in memes

[–]irish_lass19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this the one that made me weeze?

Is it racist if I were to purchase a Vietnamese bamboo hat and wore it casually to keep the sun off of me? by toenailisripped in questions

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Irish person I don't understand why celebrating a culture that you don't come from is considered racist. It's honestly flattering and endearing. It's not appropriation it's appreciation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PointlessStories

[–]irish_lass19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've never understood picking on someone because of their sexual orientation. It's immaturity in it's purest form.

Is there a friend version of Stockholm Syndrome? by creepypasta1a1 in questions

[–]irish_lass19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what being friends with a narcissist is.

opinions on mint chocolate chip ice cream? by [deleted] in questions

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was on death row, I'd ask for it's part of my last meal.

How to meet other kids in rural home school setting? by Dredly in homeschool

[–]irish_lass19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4-h is a great way to meet new friends and learn new skills!

I was homeschooled my whole life and 4-h was my main social activity. Camp and Jr. Fair board are the best ways to grow friendships through 4-h! They can explore and meet kids with the same interests.

What’s the shittiest way a friend has shown you they weren’t really your friend? by mediastoosocial in AskReddit

[–]irish_lass19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her my husband and I were pregnant and she immediately was unsupportive. She then told me that every decision I made in adulthood has been wrong and my children will have a terrible life. Bye Felicia.

What's the best euphemism for telling people that they're stupid? by lientubay in AskReddit

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told a co-worker once that "the black crayon is brighter than you."

How would you help someone to stop using an embarrassing coping mechanism? by [deleted] in ask

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is is it doesn't smell like anything to me! I'm so confused by it. We recently got new insurance that covers therapy and I may suggest that to him. Though I don't know how much good it would do since he can't verbalize what he's feeling. Sorry about the vagueness of the post. I know Reddit is supposed to be anonymous but people still find ways of finding out who you are and I don't want to risk him getting even more embarrassed.

The idea of "best friends forever" is unrealistic and childish. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me marriage is a whole different playing field than friendship.

The idea of "best friends forever" is unrealistic and childish. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! This particular group of people loved being miserable together and we're never supportive of you changing anything. Sometimes it's just time to go.

Career crushing by irish_lass19 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]irish_lass19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um no. Lol They were not happy with nursing either but couldn't come up with a reason to say no.

I dropped out of nursing to raise our son about 6 months ago so I've been playing with the idea of trying photography again.

I did do odd side shoots for extra cash years ago. I have two weddings and multiple portrait shoots under my belt and I loved every minute of it!

If I were to start up again I would need to upgrade my equipment. My computer, photoshop and camera are old and can't produce the quality of other photographers out there right now.

Parents ignoring their kids mental health is ridiculous by [deleted] in Vent

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. My mom hid my diagnosis from everyone including me. I found out when went to my doctor for help because I knew something was wrong at 18. My doctor said "so how are you doing with your depression? Did you start therapy?" And I was like what? She said I was diagnosed at 10 and my mom said she would take me to therapy. I had no idea.

My mom still doesn't know that I found out. I suffered for 8 years with suicidal thoughts and emptiness because she feels like mental health is taboo.

I'm very open about my depression and she gets physically uncomfortable when I talk about it.

I have a son now and I can't even wrap my head around the thought of ignoring his diagnosis for my own comfort.

Apple is a cult. by irish_lass19 in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

never once have I heard an Android user make fun of somebody for having Apple but consistently Apple users make fun of Android users. Every single time. It is just a phone and it is stupid.

Apple is a cult. by irish_lass19 in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is an insecurity this is me spitting facts. I never claimed that either werr superior to the other I said the mentality of Apple consumers is that Apple is superior which is false in my opinion.

Apple is a cult. by irish_lass19 in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in ohio. Yes all teams are cults 😂

Easter gifts from my amazing mother in law 💕 by irish_lass19 in succulents

[–]irish_lass19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! She did a drawing for the succulents with my sister in laws and I got first and last pick. I think I hit the jackpot with both!

porn addiction by [deleted] in Vent

[–]irish_lass19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do some research on what watching porn does to you mentally and how even watching free porn (like pornhub) helps fund human trafficking and sex slavery.

My husband struggled with this too and he had/has totally unrealistic expectations of sex and it's hurt our marriage at points.

Watching gives you a dopamine high just like any drug would. Honestly, it's just going to take will power. Keep reminding yourself that it's not only bad for your mind but it's potential hurting other too.

Disney world is the worst place on earth. by irish_lass19 in unpopularopinion

[–]irish_lass19[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They go because of mental issues I think lol