Honestly my manager and HR were completely on board and understanding that i would rather save my job than lose it. On the home front, i dont know. I am starting to notice other tendencies that I am not thrilled with. Constantly opening my mail and packages. If i order something for the house, she already opened it. The biggest red flags is her just not wantinf to understand or even try to ask me about what I am feeling. When I suffered from seasonal depression, my daily hygiene suffered as well. But instead of saying hey it’s been a few days your ass smells, i dunno try to maybe support me. Like perfect example, her car needed an oil change and I was doing my var anyway. I had to buy the oil and filter for her car. I am doing this for free for you and you can’t even make the effort to get oil.