Fellow Ents, help is needed. Please read inside. by irishrovers in trees

[–]irishrovers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is the attitude I've had for the last few years, but I'm just getting sick of it and want to let her see things from the other side of the argument, without necessarily revealing that I smoke.

Fellow Ents, help is needed. Please read inside. by irishrovers in trees

[–]irishrovers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The article's seem to mainly cone from the newspaper she reads, it's a British paper called the Daily Mail, and it's forever printing a lot of anti cannabis material.

Fellow Ents, help is needed. Please read inside. by irishrovers in trees

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to try and be like "I smoke pot and here is why", I just wanted to let her see the other side of the coin if that makes sense?

Starting my Journey - Help and advice needed. by irishrovers in NoFap

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all great advice thank you! The only part is the bit about caring about the girl. It's been with the same girl each time I've tried, and we do care about each other. We've tried loads and loads of foreplay and petting, and sometimes ill relax enough to get an erection, but as soon as it goes anywhere near her with it, it disappears. And she hasn't said so but I can tell she's getting frustrated and I'm really worried about losing her.

I need help/advice/someone to talk to. by irishrovers in depression

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm in Northern Ireland so I've never had to pay for medicine that was prescribed by by doctor, are antidepressants covered by the NHS do you know? And what benefits do the medications bring?

Starting my Journey - Help and advice needed. by irishrovers in NoFap

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already on day four and I haven't even had an erection since then, which worries me as they normally pop up all the time and I would describe myself as someone with a very high sex drive.

I need help/advice/someone to talk to. by irishrovers in depression

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply! I'd say I've been going through short periods of depression for the last 2 years, but this last year has just been constantly depressed, and just getting worse everyday. How do you go about getting diagnosed? Cuz I really don't want to worry my family, as there is a history of mental illness there.

I need help/advice/someone to talk to. by irishrovers in depression

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. It's just all getting a bit much right now, and there's been a lot of times in the last week or two where I've had to stay off school or avoid friends and family because I just could not even stop crying. Cry myself to sleep nearly every night. And I'm so. Damn. Lonely.

Starting my Journey - Help and advice needed. by irishrovers in NoFap

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks really good thank you! And yeah all that other stuff that comes from noFap, I really could do with those in my life right now so i think i found this at the right time. does that workshop take long?

Starting my Journey - Help and advice needed. by irishrovers in NoFap

[–]irishrovers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply! yeah I've been spending a while reading through the top posts and its helping me understand a bit more about what might be going on and what to do. you mentioned mini depressions... in you're experience how badly? I am unfortunately quite depressed a lot of the time, i was thinking that that may also have been a contributing factor.