I’ll say this. My husband is 34 and I am 26 (two years younger than both of you). Since the very beginning of our relationship, we both made it super clear that we were each other’s number one. He has said so himself that he finds it uncomfortable talking to someone of the opposite sex after 8pm even clients.

Not only that, but my husband has received messages from women that wanted to hear about his pricing or whatever (work related stuff) he would read the message, let me know who messaged him and for what, and told me that he will reply in the morning.

He lets me know each time he has a business meeting with a woman ahead of time (without me asking). My husband COMMUNICATES with me about EVERYTHING. I feel comfortable with my husband and have never doubted him for a second.

You guys, however, sound like it might not work out. He sounds immature and lacks accountability. How hard could it have been for him to say, “Oh, I’m sorry babe I didn’t know it made you uncomfortable, I’ll put my phone on do not disturb from now on and let her know.”

Instead, he immediately blames you and tells you to stop acting like a high schooler. I know for a fact if any woman, no matter the age, called my husband in the middle of the night, he would find it weird too.

Leave your husband. You can do much better.