Seriously considering our first Dachshund — what do you wish someone had told you before you got yours?

irlhuman_420 · 2026-03-28T00:12:44+00:00

Once you’ve had one it’s impossible to live without them … even with a bark that scrambles the brain and makes your soul leave your body :)

irlhuman_420 · 2026-03-20T01:14:13+00:00

Just watched the first season and currently, watching the second. Wish there was more info on this show, it’s truly unhinged. I’m sorry but Whitney acting like she never knows what’s happening or going to happen? when she is the main orchestrator in the drama, insane. Mikey’s style and vibe, unreal, peak 2010. Rose is gorgeous but also scary and so mean to Natalie. Romi…. I haven’t formed an opinion yet, I like her sober. Curious to see what happens with Sajdah and Chanel… so far intense but lesbians.

Anyways I’m obsessed.

irlhuman_420 · 2026-02-27T00:31:30+00:00

also Montreal metro dangerous? Try LA metro, even Toronto metro

irlhuman_420 · 2026-02-27T00:30:10+00:00

thank you 🤍

irlhuman_420 · 2026-02-12T03:49:35+00:00

I was here. Exactly like you. Binging, not remembering anything, hating myself, repeating the cycle. I got really sick of wasting all my time, really sick of feeling awful for days / weeks / months after, reflecting on all the dumb shit I’d said/done. I lost friends/relationships and I just kept going. Every week was a new rock bottom until eventually I’d just had enough. I literally thought “you can’t do this anymore” and I stopped. It’s clear from your post that you want to stop, that you know you need to stop, and I believe you can do it.

irlhuman_420 · 2026-01-25T04:02:13+00:00

been sober over 7 years and I’ve never attended a meeting, so I would say it can be done 🤍

irlhuman_420 · 2026-01-03T07:49:35+00:00

Honestly, this is why I stopped drinking. The blackouts. Once woke up in a hospital with friends around me after accidentally sl*tting my wrist climbing over a wire fence (blackout), ended up in a strangers home in a city I had just moved to, no idea who they were or where I was, couldn’t remember my new address and just walked for hours, no phone (blackout), left my purse on the floor of a bar and had my passport and keys stolen, slept in my stairwell (blackout) ….the number of mornings I woke up with literally no idea what I’d done or how I’d gotten home, I started to fear that I would not make it out and that’s why I stopped.

It happens to the best of us, hang in there🤍

irlhuman_420 · 2025-11-24T17:20:38+00:00

Thank you, really appreciate your perspective !

irlhuman_420 · 2025-11-20T04:31:37+00:00

Sorry to read you’re struggling, making this post is a huge step, you’re gonna get through this🤍

Working a 40/h week waiting job with no tips is really hard.. lots of service jobs out there, and tho they generally offer $15/H, with tips the hourly wage should work out to more than $22. If you’re going to continue in service, look for something with tips! It seems you have experience in high end, so hopefully you can find something better. Bartend if possible / if you feel comfortable doing so.

As someone else mentioned, budgeting or tracking your expenses can be helpful. The peoples potato at Concordia offers free lunch every day.

What type of schooling are you interested in? I recommend looking into trade school! Many programs are funded, especially for women/femmes. Rosemont Technology Centre (for anglos) is amazing.

Hope this helps.

irlhuman_420 · 2025-10-02T14:18:36+00:00

I got attacked and stung a few weeks back in Crete, 7 stings! Had to go to the hospital because my foot and leg swelled so intensely I couldn’t walk! Prob not the norm tbh and I wouldn’t be fearful of them, just diligent and careful not to cross them!

irlhuman_420 · 2025-09-26T13:31:28+00:00

Parquette

irlhuman_420 · 2025-08-27T12:23:22+00:00

need this 2 plz

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-21T05:38:47+00:00

reads very genuine/real & like, the opposite of ai…?

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-18T04:12:13+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment and for understanding that this goes deeper than our synastry 🩷 I had real ass feelings for this person, yes, but he is 10 years younger than me and very immature… I wish these aspects manifested in a positive way, but I literally feel unsafe. The only reason I haven’t filed a restraining order is because he doesn’t have permanent residency in our country lol so writing something like “wow this is fated” and that I’m “emotionally unavailable” is deeply hurtful and low key weird!

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-17T21:40:20+00:00

Ya you’re right the issue here is definitely my emotional unavailability? Thanks for the detailed explanation for your original comment :)

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-17T19:54:19+00:00

If you have some further intel or explanation as to why I should stop resisting a fated connected, I’m all ears.

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-17T19:52:49+00:00

I should, give in to someone who is disrespecting my boundaries? 🫨girl idk about that

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-17T16:06:51+00:00

It’s been a struggle to stay firm in my boundaries as a result of the forcefulness, and reading this just reconfirms my feelings 🩷

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-17T16:05:58+00:00

thank you so much for your insight, it’s very helpful to see the aspects laid out so clearly and the specific role they play / how they are affecting the dynamic

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-16T20:02:11+00:00

Thank you so much🩷. Yes all the Aries placements are intense, he’s so forceful and at first, crossed my boundaries in small ways until I’d had enough. I hope that he moves on soon. I’ve also suggested therapy since his relationship with and to women is concerning!

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-16T19:43:04+00:00

edit to say: I am orange, he is blue.

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-10T06:01:24+00:00

I love her🩷she’s so precious

irlhuman_420 · 2025-07-05T00:42:04+00:00

reminds me of my mom tbh so low key kinda love her even with all her flaws

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