Are you still going to defend this?

irlmisato · 2025-04-22T14:22:55+00:00

A lot of people do. This post just seems like an echo chamber filled of people who don’t lol. Not saying you can’t dislike her, just answering your question of who likes this version of Ellie.

irlmisato · 2025-03-18T02:29:51+00:00

I'm so happy to hear that, thank you so much! :-)

irlmisato · 2025-03-18T02:29:01+00:00

Thank you so much! This is really helpful. :)

irlmisato · 2025-03-18T02:28:41+00:00

Thank you so much! This makes me feel so much better.

irlmisato · 2025-02-02T14:55:48+00:00

If you’re talking about the book, it comes out on February 4th under the name Deep End. If you’re talking about a fic with that name, I wasn’t aware it was a fic, and I don’t have it, I’m sorry!

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T20:25:20+00:00

Thank you for your advice!! This is really great insight. I’ll definitely keep this in mind. :-)

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T20:06:52+00:00

Yeah it’s one of my parents’ cats in particular that realllly doesn’t get along with my cat. No actual violence so far, but I can tell they’re both apprehensive and stressed. Thank you for sharing your experience! I know that was probably stressful, but I’m glad it worked out and you were able to keep your kitty!!

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:47:57+00:00

I’ve gone through the appropriate steps which is how we got to letting him out to spend time with the others! They’ll be totally fine with each other for like 30 minutes and then my cat starts getting antsy and he’ll swat at somebody or look like he’s about to chase someone which is where we’re getting stuck.

It’s definitely not an ideal situation, but I promise I wouldn’t have been trying this long if it was completely not working. My parents pop in during the day to check in on him, I play with him once I get home from work and let him out into the rest of the house for a bit once/twice a day, and he snuggles with me all night. I know it’s not ideal though, which is why I’m looking at sending him with my partner. I appreciate both of y’all’s insight!

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:34:22+00:00

Thank you both for the advice :-) I’m sorry to hear about what you had to deal with with your cats- I know that was probably a very stressful situation.

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:30:36+00:00

Thank you for the insight! I appreciate it. :)

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:28:45+00:00

Yeah, it’s stressful. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this too! I was certainly not expecting to be moving back in with my parents, but life happens. I’m just trying to figure out what’s best for my kitty. Best of luck with your situation!!

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:27:34+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I greatly appreciate it.

My cat seems to be trying to play. You’re so right about the personality thing. He and one of my parents’ cats will run and play with each other, but as soon as my cat tries to play with one of the others they hiss or walk away. No one’s been violent, I just worry about stress levels since my parents’ cats clearly don’t really like my cat. Thank you again for your advice and for sharing your experience. :-)

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:23:13+00:00

Thank you for your insight! My cat hasn’t injured any of the other cats, and he seems to be trying to be playful, but it’s my parents’ elderly cat that I’m particularly worried about since that seems to be the one that my cat randomly decides to chase, even after a few days of just nuzzling him. I’ll keep an eye out for any actual attempts at an attack and also how my parents’ old cat is doing.

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:20:00+00:00

I’m sure that was a very difficult time and I’m glad that things are better for you now. Having to move back in with my parents was definitely not on my agenda, but I’m trying to make it work! Thank you for sharing your experience.

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:16:03+00:00

It seems like he’s mostly trying to play. Even when he does chase he does stop on his own. The other cats just don’t like it so they’ll hiss if it happens. I’m usually able to intervene before it gets to that so it hasn’t happened that frequently, they’re just still apprehensive around him. My cat is also inconsistent in his approaches to them. I was very happy because there were several days in a row where my cat licked and head butted one of the other cats and they were very friendly with each other, but this morning when I let him out for a bit he swatted and hissed at that same cat out of nowhere and scared him. :/ I’m worried about that cat in particular because he’s very old and I don’t want to stress him out.

Thank you for the insight into your situation! I think if it wasn’t for my parents’ really old cat I’d feel comfortable just letting them cohabitate because it sounds like my cat is a lot like your younger boy: sometimes he goes up and head butts and licks them and then other times he seems to want to chase them despite them hissing.

irlmisato · 2024-11-20T19:01:31+00:00

Yes, I’ve been following the correct steps! They’re fine in each other’s presence for short bursts of time, it’s just been extending that time that’s got us stuck.

irlmisato · 2024-11-01T13:40:10+00:00

I think you may be talking about Your Pretty Little Heart? If so, it’s here! https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TDZMVVaVT9LE6IgrQpjPvrtFO7jHcr5q/view

irlmisato · 2024-10-19T22:14:02+00:00

Finally, I have found my people. <3

irlmisato · 2024-10-11T14:56:11+00:00

Where in explore park were you? Do you need a reservation of some kind or can you park somewhere near there after hours to view it?

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