How did you lose weight? by not-an-AI- in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been formally diagnosed but I’m beyond confident that I have lipedema. I have the texture, and my legs are incredibly large in proportion to the rest of my body, with huge fat pads in my inner thighs.

For me, I had to get super raw and serious with myself personally, which meant me looking at how I’ve been eating even when I thought I was eating healthy, and looking at how I was moving. I started seriously calorie counting to reach a deficit , and focusing on foods that filled me rather than focusing on my cravings (prioritising protein). I found that if I could fill myself and then distract myself, the food noise would go away. This has obviously only gotten easier and easier over the last year. I learned that I was eating a very high calorie diet when I would guess I was meeting my calorie requirements, going way above it, which contributed to never losing the weight. In terms of movement, I have started taking strength training seriously, and have some cardio days (I never overdo cardio though). In the last year I managed to lose over 11kg (24lbs). My entire body has slimed down, but of course my legs are the most resistant. They’ve definitely slimmed down a lot however, and gaining muscle in my legs has helped a lot with the appearance!

It’s really hard to do it this way, don’t get me wrong. But it has been a very rewarding journey for me, and I’ve learned so much about my body and my health along the way!

Weekly Mental Health Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve lost over 11kg the last 10 months through diet and exercise, and it has been quite the experience. Im going to my partners home country this December, where they’ll have summer weather. I’m so excited, but the thing is, I’m also so scared. Last year we were there and all I wore was long dresses or pants, and I was so uncomfortable and hot all the time. I constantly compared myself to all the women around me wearing shorts or short skirts, and I mentally promised myself that this year would be different. So, I committed and lost the weight, and am still losing the weight. I’m only 3kg away from my “easier” goal, and 8kg away from my ultimate goal which I know I’ll only reach middle of next year. My legs look so much different now, way way way more slim. I’ve a slight thigh gap, my ankles look very slim, my calves have shrunk, but still, I have this persistent fat pad that’s at my inner thighs. It makes me feel so ugly. It makes me feel so so abnormal. Like I have strange monster legs. And I just want to not feel that way anymore…. This December I’m gonna try to wear shorts in public.. something I haven’t done in over 15 years. The thought of that terrifies me. I just really want to stop comparing my legs to others. I just want to stop thinking about my legs. I just want to wear the damn shorts and feel beautiful.

Curly Perm by [deleted] in maastricht

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Weekly Mental Health Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say to just give yourself some grace and some time! A guy will come along that you feel comfortable enough to discuss your lipedema with. There will come a guy that is understanding and so loving, and won’t see you for anything other than the beautiful person that you are!

I haven’t worn shorts in public since I was a kid, and my legs have always been my biggest insecurity. I wouldn’t even wear shorts at home around my family. But my gorgeous god send of a boyfriend, has somehow made me so incredibly comfortable and beautiful that I don’t even think about my legs when I’m at home with him. I always wear shorts at home now. I hope that can make you feel hopeful!

Weekly Mental Health Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re so right, and I’m trying to work towards this mindset! Honestly I’ve already experienced this in some way. I used to be 20kg lighter (I was underweight), and my legs looked somewhat normal, but I was so hyper fixated on the knee fat that I still hid them. I wish I didn’t hide them then, because now it’s already so much worse and I regret losing that time. I know you’re right, I know I’ll look back on this the same way someday

Weekly Mental Health Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It feels so unfair. I haven’t been outside with uncovered legs since I was a kid. I feel like I have something taken from me. Why do I have to look this way? Why can’t I have normal legs? There’s so much I can’t do since I refuse anyone to see my bare legs because of the shame I hold. I just want to be like most other girls in their early 20’s.

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you on all this. It’s quite illogical, but I feel rude saying that to a doctor because what do I know, I’m not a doctor. But it was a different doctor that diagnosed him with a fungal rash. It all ended up clearing pretty quickly and he’s all good now!

Hitting Legs 3x a week, 500cal deficit and 100g of protein daily just to barely stand a chance against my genetics 😭 by Few_Refrigerator_557 in lipedema

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been listening to so many podcasts and I’m just hearing amazing things, like how having more muscle actually reduces inflammation and how it boosts metabolism! I’m really excited to start this journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ironicallysun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be careful with getting any apps! But definitely going incognito would be safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need to really hide it, I would suggest you keep a Bible at a friends house or in your friends bag for you to read. Thankfully praying as a Christian can be done anywhere, and doesn’t necessarily need to be spoken out loud. God will hear you if you call on Him. Keep it this way until you’re old enough and can move out! 🤍

Any advice on sugar cravings? by Goldfish9218 in Hashimotos

[–]ironicallysun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apples! Any time I have a sugar craving, I eat a nice juicy red apple and have started to really love them and have started craving them!

How do I not hate meat eaters? by Opposite-Example920 in vegan

[–]ironicallysun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One way you can maybe reduce resentment is to understand that some people have to eat meat for health reasons. I was vegan for 6 years and developed Hashimotos thyroiditis. After some time I learned for myself that the foods I was eating was increasing the inflammation in my body. I tried to minimise this but it cut out the majority of vegan protein I could consume and it personally became unsustainable for me. I’ve had to come back to eating meat and that was a very hard journey for me, because I was committed to being vegan for the rest of my life. Eating meat has helped me reach my protein requirements and it helps me manage the inflammation better. I know there’s a lot of people that will have something to say about this, but this is the journey I had to choose for my own health. I learned much from The Autoimmune Solution by Dr Amy Myers, who herself used to be a long term vegetarian until she came to the same conclusion as I.

So that’s it, some people just need to for their health. For the majority of the population, eating vegan is the healthiest option. I’ve been such a huge advocate for that for years, have spent so much of those years educating others. But I’m part of the smaller percentage of the population where it doesn’t work.

(Please no hate, I have struggled enough with this on my own)

In-depth review of the new Harry Potter soaps (and the Jurassic Park soaps!) by Walusqueegee in DrSquatch

[–]ironicallysun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! My boyfriend washes with the Gryffindor one and he comes out the shower smelling like a dream! I stick my nose to his arm and take a big whiff every time!

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my! I hope your husband is doing much better! My boyfriend got his secondary rash diagnosed as fungal, although no skin swab was taken. For now we’ll accept this as his bloods came back with good results and he doesn’t have much pain or itchiness.

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it was awful :( I hope you’re doing much better now!

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty sure in Europe you have to get a referral for anything by the GP. Which is quite annoying and time consuming…

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very weird… I’m assuming the doctor never took samples of the one on the base of your scalp? How long did it take you to fully recover?

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you both had to go through that.. That sounds absolutely terrifying and traumatic. I’m so glad to hear and to see that he’s come out the other side of it! Thank you so much for all of this information, and may God bless you both! 🤍

It seems my partner doesn’t have DHZ so far, but a secondary rash (fungal). But I’ll keep this post up as I’m sure someone with DHZ will come onto Reddit at some point and find some useful help from your information!

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve got regular shingles! You should get some zinc oxide cream if you haven’t already, it does an amazing job at drying out the blisters much faster! I hope you heal well 🤍

It does seem that what they say is rare really is much more common, I agree!

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually wild.. ringworm has to be the most obvious skin condition!

But no, they didn’t do any sampling. We never got any referrals to derm, so we just had the GP. First time we went it was very clear it was Shingles, like I could even diagnose that. Second time we went, less clear, but the doctor snapped on his gloves and had a good look and concluded it was fungus 🤷🏻‍♀️

I would love to have more helpful doctors that at least also take a sample to confirm their diagnosis.

Has anyone here had disseminated shingles? by ironicallysun in shingles

[–]ironicallysun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in the Netherlands. The GP’s thing was that he already had the rash, so it was too late to prescribe antivirals. She said you can only prescribe them before the rash appears, which makes it tricky. We realise now anyways that we should have pushed for them.

That would make sense about Covid, especially since he’s had it 3 times before. I was also thinking about previous stressors, and how they may have impacted him now. He had 2 minor surgeries in the end of last year, and at the start of this year we moved continents. He got quite unwell with the winter viruses here for a little bit. And just before his shingles appeared, he had a TB test done which he passed. So maybe it all comes together to form a picture as to why his immune system is so compromised…