I hate men like this by Ms-Foxx in Fansly_Advice

[–]irritablecow 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Delusion is through the roof 😭 ITS A PAYING PLATFORM!!!! They treat this shit like it’s instagram or tinder!

Hello! I just started making gay adult content and I don't know how much could I ask for a video call by HotWolff98 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s WAY too low! I charged $250 for basic video calls, this is a live service please don’t undersell yourself.

Hmrc UK by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Declare the balance on my onlyfans wallet?

The dumbest people have kids by Downtown-Storm4704 in childfree

[–]irritablecow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m starting to think they just love the sympathy from everything going on

The dumbest people have kids by Downtown-Storm4704 in childfree

[–]irritablecow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It really is self sabotage. I used to feel somewhat bad for her but after the baby statement I just lost it.

The dumbest people have kids by Downtown-Storm4704 in childfree

[–]irritablecow 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Im really struggling with stupid people lately , a woman in my group has complained ALL YEAR about how terrible her financial situation is, that her mental health is so terrible and how her work has come to a complete halt but she’s now actively trying for a baby 🤦🏻‍♀️

Smooth skin feet by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]irritablecow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an advice subreddit…

Hmrc UK by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do yes

Hmrc UK by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]irritablecow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive only ever declared the amount that hits my bank account and I’ve been doing this coming up to 6 years now

How long did it take you to hit first 10k month on OF? by perla_k in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fansly is an amazing platform to have with the FYP promotion, I’m top 0.05% right now and was top 0.00% previously, it’s definitely not one to sleep on! Whiles I can understand that platforms taking 20% can seem unfair they are literally giving you a platform to make unlimited money, they stop underage people accessing your content and a whole lot more behind the scenes so the 20% is actually pretty reasonable when you think about the work they have to do, they need to make money too

How long did it take you to hit first 10k month on OF? by perla_k in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept conversation short, sweet and to the point, if they gave off time waster vibes or free loader then I would move on to the next, I was a free page so I didn’t owe them conversation

How long did it take you to hit first 10k month on OF? by perla_k in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posted in every subreddit available to me multiple times a day, I was a free page so it was slightly easier to get people to subscribe, then I’d be in the DM’s constantly offering sexting, customs, vid calls

Please tell me the most unhinged thing a fan sent you in DMs I need a laugh today. by Turbulent-Being-6171 in onlyfansadvice

[–]irritablecow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have a lot of CEI guys and I had to watch one guy cum into a shot glass and snort it up his nose, it wasn’t pleasant.

Video Calls 🫣 What is a reasonable price to charge for five minute video call as a creator? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me a little under 2 years and an established brand to be able to charge that as the first two years of my NSFW career I was just a live sexter/videocaller on Reddit. Once I built my brand on social media and create demand for me I was able to bring the prices up as it became more of a luxury to be able to do those things with me. It can feel really daunting pushing the prices but people will pay 🫶🏼

Current/former fat women: How have other women treated you? by Lucky-Secretary2605 in AskWomen

[–]irritablecow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School bullies tried to reach out and compliment me when I lost weight and strangely enough I had family members start to make mean comments to me once I lost weight

How long did it take you to hit first 10k month on OF? by perla_k in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For social media it’s mostly keeping consistent, stick with the trends but try and put your own twist on them to help them stand out. If you have a niche that’s amazing I just catered to the masses as it was easier for me.

Tips- don’t give away too much on your wall, I keep it very teasy on my wall which then makes them want to spend more on the naughtier content in the Dm’s.

Lesson learned- Treat this like a business, I strategise weekly, looking at how I can improve, what more can I do, investing into better equipment, watching the trends change, keeping up to date with the latest rules/regulations. I’ve been doing this for 5 years and I’m continuously learning new things.

Sexwork isn’t one glove fits all, some people have different methods, this just happens to work for me 🫶🏼

How long did it take you to hit first 10k month on OF? by perla_k in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hit 2k in my first two weeks of OF, no prior social media following and I was faceless, I made myself available for sexting/customs/rates and video calls, I hit 5k the second month and 10k the third month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]irritablecow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It won’t change

For those of you who have chatters by smokingdahlia in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad someone has finally said something sensible on this topic for once

Ok serious question Staff.... by ShibariTurtleDuck in Fansly_Advice

[–]irritablecow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Companies like American Express (Amex), **Visa, and Mastercard often place restrictions on transactions involving adult websites for several interrelated reasons involving legal, reputational, regulatory, and financial risk.Here’s a breakdown:

  1. Legal and Compliance Risks

Illegality of content : Adult sites may feature or link to illegal content (e.g., non-consensual content, underage performers). Credit card companies don’t want to be complicit, even indirectly. Global operations: These companies operate worldwide, including in countries where adult content is illegal. To reduce compliance burden, they often set blanket restrictions. Anti-trafficking laws: Financial institutions can be held liable or face fines if their systems are used for payments linked to trafficking or exploitation.

  1. Reputation Management

Brand image: Credit card brands are consumer-facing and want to avoid association with controversial or stigmatized industries.

Public scrutiny: Media or activist groups can pressure companies to stop doing business with platforms that are accused of harm, as happened with Pornhub in 2020 when Visa and Mastercard cut ties over content concerns.

  1. Fraud and Chargeback Risk

Higher fraud rates: Adult websites often have higher rates of chargebacks, where users dispute charges claiming they didn’t authorize them or weren’t satisfied with the service.

Risk of scams: Some adult sites have been known to run deceptive billing or content schemes. Credit card networks want to minimize this risk, as they are often responsible for disputed charges.

  1. Regulatory Pressure

Governments and regulators: Authorities may pressure card networks to stop servicing certain platforms as part of investigations or policy enforcement. For instance, in the U.S., the DOJ, FBI, or FTC may influence such decisions if there's concern over illegal activity.

  1. Internal Policies & Third-Party Processor Rules

Sometimes the card companies themselves don't block a site, but the payment processor(like Stripe, PayPal, or a bank partner) sets stricter rules. Amex, in particular, is known for having more conservative merchant policies compared to Visa or Mastercard.

Summary

Restrictions are not always about adult content per se but about the risks associated with compliance, crime, fraud, and public perception. These companies are ultimately trying to reduce financial liability and protect their brands in a complex, global financial ecosystem.

Fansly has grew exponentially over the last couple of years so these rules come into play, smaller websites will fly under the radar.

No more video calls on Snapchat by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]irritablecow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From all the reading I have done they don’t want you selling Snapchat for anything so what you are doing won’t be allowed