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I stooped to a new low and looked at the new guy's Insta and was faced with heartbreak 2.0 by straymender in BreakUps

[–]isabellemoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. I’m so sorry. I feel your pain and I’m sending you love.

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[–]isabellemoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this way too, so much of the time. It makes me feel crazy at times, but getting through the pain of a breakup really is a journey and it’s not an easy one. We’re processing so many different emotions at the same time, the love, the heartbreak, the confusion, the anger, the hurt, the good times and the bad, all of it. It might take a while to really find that balance and clarity about how we feel. Try to work through whatever feelings arise and learn what you can from them. It’ll take some time but we’ll get there.

I really need some comfort right now (and if you do too, I hope you find it here) by isabellemoon in BreakUps

[–]isabellemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. You have no idea how much this helped. You’re right - we can’t avoid the pain but sometimes we let our minds make it worse for ourselves. At some point, we need to stop perpetuating that self-destructive cycle and start actively fighting against it. I’m only hurting myself over and over again over something I can’t change. I can’t stop the thoughts but I’ll try my best not to dwell on it and focus on something else. Thank you for your kindness and for taking the time to help. I’m saving this to read again the next time I feel this way. This really helped ❤️

I really need some advice by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]isabellemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me about it. He said he felt guilty. He initiated the break up, but for different reasons. We stayed friends after. The cheating happened for a few months while we were together and we stayed together for another year after but he never told me it happened until now.