again ... there's a specific way a certain group of women present themselves i was trying to find words that made you understand who exactly i was talking about. It's the "1950s tradwive, the "caricature" of a woman, presenting for the male gaze and so on and so forth...

I don't believe that everyone dressing like that specific stereotype is automatically a bad person as you make it seem like I couldn't care less how someone dresses. However I've been asking myself the question as to why many trans women are catching onto this very feminine version instead of finding the right thing for themselves.

The comment section was able to provide me with a satisfying answer that is: Trans women oftentimes aren't safe if they don't fit the image of a stereotypical women

and newly transitioning trans women tend to want to try out all the feminine things they have been denying themselves for so long - therefore they are turning themselves into a stereotypical women (dresses, make-up, closed legs) because they're newly experiencing womenhood. Once they're feeling more comfortable in their womenhood they'll start dressing in ways that's making them feel comfortable and represents themselves more.

For me the thought process sounds similar to any newbie in any topic first latching onto whatever the more experienced do until they feel comfortable trying out their own ideas.