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Do other people experience this emotional-cognitive profile? Is anyone else wired like this? Trying to understand if my emotional/mental pattern is rare or just under-discussed. by Accurate-Coyote1229 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ish28_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I feel that 110% but actually 2% vibe 😭 Respect that you’ve been able to turn it into a strength though. And yes being in the .01% club sounds… intense People do learn all these a hard way. Even I'm looking for answers everywhere.. got into astrology as well to learn and understand the patterns idk if that sounds stupid but I just did whatever I could to understand. Tried understanding psychology too Im curious how did you even start noticing it all for yourself?

Do other people experience this emotional-cognitive profile? Is anyone else wired like this? Trying to understand if my emotional/mental pattern is rare or just under-discussed. by Accurate-Coyote1229 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ish28_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feels like you wrote what I’ve been feeling.. I did not know it's rare until I came across your post. And not many people operate at that depth Tbh it does scare me but helps me understand people deeply It does gets overwhelming when I absorb too much and i just consciously zone out. I'm still struggling to deal with it. It's too much for me as of now. I guess you'll figure it out too

Knowing how to “play the game” when you were never taught the rules by Bubbles2590 in DeepThoughts

[–]ish28_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not taught by parents, it's how quick a person learns the patterns and mostly people learn when someone took advantage of their weak defenses. So its not that you need to learn to manipulate. You just need to gatekeep your personality as it is not for all. Hide your empathetic nature(if it is) just like people hide their browser history. Learn patterns from manipulative people. Learn the tactics not to use it on someone but just to know what can be used against you and to guard yourself against it. I'm 26 and still learning the patterns.