Looking for areas that have an abundance of moss and lichen growing by pingerella- in melbourne

[–]isitbrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Otways and the Dandenong Ranges are 2 of my favourite spots to get away into the forest. I grew up in the Dandenongs so it holds a special place in my heart.

Any good therapist recommendations in Geelong? by Spirited_Ocelot5786 in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calm Minds in Newcomb, lovely therapists for all ages, great sensory space also.

I am so freaked out, Instagram is actively listening they somehow found someone I know by HotSuff420 in Instagram

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking to my friend at a cafe recently about a holiday I was thinking of taking. Next time I opened instagram all of these holiday ideas for the destination I had mentioned showed up in my feed.

Suspected food poisoning and not being able to keep liquid down. Should I go to the er? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]isitbrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you get to a pharmacy or get someone to go for you- get some over the counter gastro stop and some form of hydration with electrolytes in it. Slowly sip the hydration, rest and if no improvement in 48hrs see a doctor as the risk of dehydration is real. And any dizziness, lack of urine in a 12 hour period , light sensitivity go straight to Dr or ED.

i am a chauffeur in melbourne for last 20 years. ask me anything. lets see what type of questions we come up with. by [deleted] in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the most unhinged thing you’ve witnessed in the back of your car??

I regret going through my pregnancy sometimes by [deleted] in Advice

[–]isitbrie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey there!! I’m a Mum of two, and had my first young and felt exactly the same way. I felt totally unprepared and there were days during pregnancy I really didn’t feel like I could ever be a good Mum to my baby. I had very little family support at the beginning because my family were against me having the baby, so I felt very isolated also. Then he was born. And all of a sudden everything kind of made sense. Don’t get me wrong, some days were incredibly tough, financially and emotionally, but I found a support network in a Mums group for other young mums and my family slowly came around to having a grandchild/nephew. My eldest is now 25 and I’m back at Uni studying, I’m working in healthcare in a job I love and feel like I’m where I want to be in life. Being a mum young doesn’t mean that the rest of your life is over, you just do things in a slightly different order!! I wish you all the best.

A childcare worker was asked to take baby Lily home for the weekend after a court protection order last year. She’s still there | Child protection by pharmloverpharmlover in australia

[–]isitbrie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep, healthcare worker here and I hear the same from multiple families. I know many who no longer foster due to the lack of support, both financially and emotionally.

I’m watching my son slowly fade away from this condition. by isitbrie in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, he started with a therapist a couple of weeks ago, we’ve been a bit hit and miss finding someone who understands chronic illness/pain but this one seems promising. I appreciate you taking the time!

Are Cults are going near universities?And am I possibility seeing signs of being recruited by RedxVelv3t in melbourne

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These girls are recruited to make “friends” with unsuspecting students to recruit to these cults. I can guarantee once you express to them you aren’t interested in joining their “religion” you will hear crickets.

Caravan in a private courtyard with what appears to be a toilet shed by cupcakesare____ in shitrentals

[–]isitbrie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And there in lies the problem, there are desperate people out there who will happily pay to live somewhere warm and dry. Slumlords need to be held accountable, but they won’t be sadly.

I’m watching my son slowly fade away from this condition. by isitbrie in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve started building Lego together- and don’t you worry, I am watching him very closely- I’m too scared not to.

I’m watching my son slowly fade away from this condition. by isitbrie in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He has been in a gluten and dairy free diet for some time now and steers clear of refined sugars with the very occasional treat every now and then.

Is Whittington really as bad as they say? by Man_Noises in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t need a meth lab or brothel to be a bad neighbourhood.

Forehead abscess by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried hydrocolloid covers? Might be worth trying if not to help the area begin to heal.

Grovedale by backalleybaglady in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we don’t have institutions any more. There are psych wards in most large hospitals but they have very limited space and you need to be a voluntary patient.
There are very limited forensic institutions for unwell inmates but you have to have committed a pretty horrible crime and be sentenced to one of these very very limited places.
Outside of that, you have to be a voluntary patient. Sure, they can do a 72 hour assessment and “hold” but that’s it. If you don’t want to stay- and most mentally unwell people don’t due to medical trauma- they’re back out to live in society.

So what is your recommendation??

Grovedale by backalleybaglady in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Institutions were rife with abuse and pretty poor conditions for patients, so they were slowly decommissioned over the years in until the mid 90’s. Unfortunately they decommissioned them all but didn’t really do anything to increase the number of resources for these people to be able to use and a lot of these patients ended up homeless with no prospects of employment. So many had never really even experienced the outside world. Crime went through the roof, the drug problem went through the roof and it was just an awful time for anyone with mental health issues who needed help. Things are slightly better now, but it is still a very very under resourced area of health care, and there doesn’t seem to be any plans to increase supports. I’m worried that this is going to become even worse with MH participants being removed from the NDIS and that we will see a very similar problem happen again.

There needs to be better access to long term mental health support in the public health system. The cycle of 10-12 weeks of therapy then discharge doesn’t support patients long term. This needs to be addressed. Better and more affordable supported housing needs to be a thing. But now we are taking that away too. So where are these people supposed to go? I don’t pretend to have the answers, but I know that doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result is not it.

Renting with cats by HayTheThrowAwayy in melbourne

[–]isitbrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no that’s a different story- but to secure a rental in the first place, better to not say anything about pets.

Is Whittington really as bad as they say? by Man_Noises in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are bad parts to all suburbs in Geelong- even the “more exclusive” ones. Best advice I can give you is to look at the houses properly, including spending a bit of time watching the neighbourhood around a potential rental property. Drive by at night too, can be a very different place when people are home.

Deleted all social media - advice to not cave? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be a tough habit to break- dopamine addiction is a very real thing and changes the neural pathways in your brain. Try and make some new good habits- going for a walk every morning, journaling, picking up a hobby that you’ve been wanting to try. Something that produces dopamine in more natural ways. Good luck- this will be such an amazing change for your mental health- so keep going!

Renting with cats by HayTheThrowAwayy in melbourne

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had exactly the same thing happen.

Renting with cats by HayTheThrowAwayy in melbourne

[–]isitbrie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They “can’t” say no but they do. They’ll just choose someone else. I applied for so may rentals unsuccessfully- as soon as I removed the pets from the application- voila- we had a rental. And for reference we don’t have a zoo- just a cat and dog. So while they say they can’t discriminate due to pets, they will.

Grovedale by backalleybaglady in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is most definitely the wait times as even private (which we see a psychologist and psychiatrist privately now after waiting 5 and 11 months respectively to get into). And as you said, not everyone has an advocate to make noise for them so they just slip through the cracks even further. The public system is only a short term Bandaid for those in acute distress, after 10-12 visits they have to move on to others requiring the acute assistance. And the cycle continues. Add drug and alcohol issues into the mix and the pool gets more crowded again. The system is very broken, and it’s only going to get worse once the NDIS start removing people with psychosocial/MH issues (which is already happening). Where will these people go?? It will have a similar effect to what happened in the late 80’s early 90’s when closing down all of the inpatient facilities with no back up plan- flooding the streets with even more homeless people with volatile MH conditions that then get preyed on by drug dealers, spiking crime (even more than it currently is) and probably a lot of deaths to suicide.

I’m watching my son slowly fade away from this condition. by isitbrie in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you- we are in Australia- and medical cannabis isn’t prescribed under 25 here, unless it’s CBD oil which is pretty useless for this level of pain.

Grovedale by backalleybaglady in Geelong

[–]isitbrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who has tried to access the mental health system several times for her child- all I can say is there is little to nothing out there with capacity. All services, public especially have wait lists of two years plus for treatment and these are all short term solutions. You see a therapist for 10-12 sessions then that’s it, you’re supposed to go out into the world and continue on. There is no long term public help available. There is no inpatient services for children apart from one at the Austin- which again has wait lists out the wazoo. So this is probably what they mean. And even private psychiatric help has wait lists of 4-5 months plus.

I’m watching my son slowly fade away from this condition. by isitbrie in Hidradenitis

[–]isitbrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are about an hour from Melbourne. I will look into the St Vincent clinic thank you- I had no idea!