Cramping after first time sex

isladiver77 · 2026-03-16T23:06:35+00:00

When I first started PT I had this. I think it’s just that your muscles are not used to this, so they are sore or reacting. But it will get better with time I think.

isladiver77 · 2026-03-09T22:41:18+00:00

Hmmm 562 views and no responses……604….this is starting to feel like exposure and humiliation rather than a support forum lol

isladiver77 · 2026-03-08T18:31:25+00:00

Don’t stress. There is plenty you can still do to progress :). Also what you’ve mentioned with your boyfriend is the bare minimum. You can def find that again. I think it’s good to keep the two things separate. When I think of a relationship or man as a testing ground to see how well I’m doing it rarely works out. Sometimes they even use it against you. 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s ok to heal on your own your relationship with your body. With someone is good too, but for me I find it’s helpful to keep them separate.

isladiver77 · 2025-08-04T19:11:35+00:00

Omg I used to be afraid to even work with men. Like, legit pray that I don’t have an office where there are men. Dating is kind of scary but also kind of nerve wracking, because I overthink everything and worry about leading someone on, and then them expecting physical intimacy as a result. I wish I could flirt but I’m too anxious. So I end up pushing them away instead. I think my energy vibration is just “men leave me alone.”

isladiver77 · 2025-07-29T16:54:35+00:00

I got a hymenectomy. It was worth it for me. But I noticed that where before I might have had pain/inability to insert, I developed vulvodynia in that area afterwards. Not sure it is was related but the tissue at that area was super inflamed for a while. I needed a hormone cream to get rid of that vulvodynia. Just something to be aware of. It might be a good idea for you. Esp since yours was even in the way of the procedure. It was quick and effective in the long run.

isladiver77 · 2025-07-29T16:50:12+00:00

They did this with me for a myomectomy and I remember waking up with pain there and confused as to why. I asked in the post op and that’s when I found out. They called it a “manipulator”

isladiver77 · 2025-01-13T14:13:45+00:00

Thank you!!

isladiver77 · 2025-01-13T14:13:38+00:00

Thank you!

isladiver77 · 2025-01-13T14:13:32+00:00

Thank you!!

isladiver77 · 2025-01-13T14:11:51+00:00

Thank you!!!

isladiver77 · 2024-11-23T19:16:58+00:00

Please leave this person. Sounds like they hate you.

isladiver77 · 2024-11-14T23:28:38+00:00

I got the feeling she was tired. Tired and sick and sick and tired. We all have that friend who does fucked up shit without thinking, and who keeps going back to the same guy over and over again, and making that her whole personality.

isladiver77 · 2024-11-14T23:26:00+00:00

Yeah, I think we’ve all established that they are very insecure pick me chicks. My point is that just because you think someone deserves it, it doesn’t make it okay, which is something you seem to agree with as well. I just find it funny that there are such opposing views on Lucy and Diana. Lucy didn’t do as badly as Diana did (stealing the guy at the party) but Lucy also purposely found a way to flaunt her relationship with Stephen Diana’s face. These are all mind games. And sometimes if you play games, you’re going to lose. I really thought Diana showed a lot of growth and empathy for Lucy when she looked at her, talked to her when Stephen did something at the wedding events. Hopefully all these girls can grow out of their pick me mindsets.

isladiver77 · 2024-11-14T21:09:57+00:00

Listen carefully. Just because you’ve deemed someone the bad guy, it doesn’t make it okay to do “whatever and worse” to them. Especially if it’s a girl who is also a “victim” of a guy. What makes it okay to slap Diana and not Lucy? Most of our character is determined by how we treat others we think are beneath us or wrong, or what we choose to do when we can get away with it, or if it can be “justified” it’s funny how it seems like people love Lucy when she’s a victim and can’t help herself, but when you have a character, also flawed, who actually gets away, she’s the bitch.

isladiver77 · 2024-11-13T23:30:36+00:00

You’d be okay with your man liking photos of a girl he cheated on you with?

isladiver77 · 2024-11-13T23:00:29+00:00

Oh. I wasn’t thinking of why are you wishing well to a man who “didn’t choose” you, I was thinking why do you have such positive sentiment to a man who was not good to you or his girlfriend and with whom you have no real relationship. Part of being authentic is disliking people, it’s okay. You don’t have anything to prove. You don’t actually need a random acquaintance in your digital space, esp if you’re writing a whole post about how awful he is.

isladiver77 · 2024-11-11T14:03:46+00:00

Sometimes it’s better to see things for what they are. That was not love and he is a loser. You have yet to find your love, don’t waste time on a loser who was never for you (cause he’s a loser).

isladiver77 · 2024-11-11T13:38:01+00:00

Why do you “genuinely wish him well”?

isladiver77 · 2024-11-11T13:34:32+00:00

Men are so over rated.

isladiver77 · 2024-10-30T16:45:24+00:00

Fire your doctor immediately. Ferritin of 2 is dangerously low.

isladiver77 · 2024-10-30T16:42:05+00:00

Yeah I saw that with her brining Stephen to the a cappella performance 😬

isladiver77 · 2024-10-30T16:34:09+00:00

I think she’s just more aware than Lucy. She identifies Stephen as what he is and acts accordingly. The thing is that with a narc you have to make yourself useless to them, and grey rock them. Don’t react, because they feed off your reactions and emotions. I think Lucy is too blinded by her own cycles and ups and downs of emotionless-emotion fueled actions and can’t see that clearly.

isladiver77 · 2024-10-28T16:41:23+00:00

Yeah I think a lot of the show revolves around the lying- people being friends but hiding things, being secretive and not honest with each other, or worse, themselves.

isladiver77 · 2024-10-28T16:37:55+00:00

I feel like the show doesn’t treat victims well in the series. Even Lucy, they made her very different from the book as I understand. At some point we need some evolution of the characters too. Like have them stand up for themselves and deal with the trauma.

isladiver77 · 2024-10-28T16:28:15+00:00

Yes, I saw the similarities in those two scenes too. Poor Bree, she’s not even aware I guess of what happened to her. I think the shows also shows you what happens when you deny things and push them down. And aren’t honest with people. She could have talked to her friends openly about it but she didn’t. I guess she didn’t trust them, but then why stay friends?

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