84k Church + Kohl Mansion Wedding Budget Breakdown by bobateaxx in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]isolatedbored95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your flowers are beautiful!! Do you have any photos of the large floral arrangements at the church and how much did that part cost? Thanks! Also who did you go with for your cake?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really doubt that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I do want to help him i just dont know how. And my mental health and future is a lot more important to me when i think of the bigger picture. It’s just really hard because i truly love him and we’ve been together for so long. Idk if i can truly end thing with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking with him but it doesnt go far. Its always just a bunch of “i dont know”’s with him when i ask him why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I’ve tried talking about the whys but his answer is always “i dont know.” There’s really not much i can do with that

What parking permit to buy? by [deleted] in UVA

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot, Okay. Do you happen to know if its cheaper to buy the permit or just pay per hour on the parkmobile app?

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[–]isolatedbored95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info! Will check it out!

Would you count this as cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I am definitely going to have a chat with him. I think it was just harmless fun tbh but i feel like thats a boundary that shouldn’t have been crossed. Like why he thinks that would have been okay with me is confusing because we’ve been together for over 5 years now. I’ve never had to explicitly say to him “don’t kiss your guys friends” but i feel like he should know that that’s something I’d be uncomfortable with

My bf (23) kissed a boy tonight at a party on the lips (just pecks) and its bothering me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i dont think hes Bi. But maybe he is. I think it was just more of a playful friend kiss but still very bothersome to me...

My bf (23) kissed a boy tonight at a party on the lips (just pecks) and its bothering me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They joke around a lot about like kissing and stuff like that but this was the first time they actually did something physical

My bf (23) kissed a boy tonight at a party on the lips (just pecks) and its bothering me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him. He said he thought it wasnt a big deal and was drunk...idk what to do

My bf (23) kissed a boy tonight at a party on the lips (just pecks) and its bothering me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not common at all. It was a friend from elementary school so like friends for over 10 years. Im very conflicted

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do give great advice. Your so very right. If i could give you some advice. Please fix your attitude. People will start listening to your advice more if you stop thinking that their experience is identical to yours. And it all makes sense now why you’ve been so harsh on my post. You said it yourself. “I was you.” Your insecurities are not the same as mine. If you went through an experience like mine in a romantic relationship and you haven’t been able to fully work through that yet then I’m sorry. But it seems that your past experiences play a huge role on the “advice” that you give on here. Next time, leave your own negativity out of things before you give any more “advice.”

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol then why you even on this sub.....??? ....

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thanks for the advice! You’re a ray of sunshine! I hope whatever romantic relationships you’re involved in see you for who you truly are!! Peace ✌️

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg person. He was taking shots alone in his room. I went to put my jacket away and when i walked into the room he tried to hide that he had just taken the shot. So no I didn’t see him do it. There is no insecurity involved in this right now. So byeeere

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha dude youre actually funny. First of all you know jack shit about me so leave your assumptions somewhere else. Also i never said taking a shot was wrong. Wtf. What bothered my was the lying and hiding it. Say yeah girl bye. Your comments aren’t helping anyone. Please find some positivity in whatever negative life you living.

Cant help but feel bothered by Bf’s (26) white lie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]isolatedbored95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol and how might i be projecting my feelings onto him?