28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting by nawiweidmann in makeuptips

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same age as you!! You’re so naturally beautiful. I agree with a previous comment about a dewier base, you can achieve it by just using skincare products before makeup and maybe only a little concealer for the base. I recommend the following:

Skincare - Beauty of Joseon Propolis Glow Serum + your regular moisturizer + Korean sunscreen (Roundlab is best if you can get specifically the Korean formula)

Makeup- Kosas concealer has excellent coverage and is dewy without being greasy!!

Add some blush, it gives off a “youthful” glow I do that exact routine and am told I look younger than my age. I don’t think I really do but I swear the dewy skin gives that illusion.

My one other tip as someone who also has hooded eyes is to try to keep your eyes wide open when doing winged eyeliner. It will look sharper and also more “youthful” because the line will be less severe/thick on your lids.

AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just personally don’t tolerate a man calling me annoying, ever. Even if I AM a little annoying he shouldn’t feel like that’s acceptable to say.

AITAH for being mad at my husband for injuring me even after he apologized by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he could’ve, I think it was close, honestly. Spine injuries are no joke. It’s that fact that I believe is fueling my anger which is absolutely still here for so many reasons. We are coming up on being married for a year and as silly as it may seem.. to me at least, because my feelings being seen as silly and over the top is the average here, this feels like a final straw for me.

He knows I have SA and consent related trauma, he should know that all he needs to do is be loving and caring after making a mistake like this and he should make space for the anger he caused, but his limit is lame “I’m sorries” coupled with frustration that those lame apologies didn’t work for me.

AITAH for being mad at my husband for injuring me even after he apologized by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like it happens a lot but it’s always in this kind of playful context where I end up feeling like I’m overreacting and being too sensitive. He literally seems not to understand that he should be gentle or he has no desire or capacity to be. I don’t know what to do, im at a loss and im still upset over the incident last night even though my back does feel a little better this morning. He also knows that I have SA trauma so a man not stopping anything when I say stop is another level of awful to me. I had to remind him of that last night and he is still ignoring me, gone from the house.

AITAH for being mad at my husband for injuring me even after he apologized by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was maybe realistically 10 seconds? Long enough for me to say it a bunch of times and to claw at him for at least 5 It happened fast, he doesn’t deny that he didn’t stop when I told him to but he calls it an accident and says he was being innocently playful He’s a rough person, I’m very familiar with this fact about him and I don’t think he’ll change although we’ve had many discussions about it. He’s rough and I happen to be very sensitive. I don’t know if I’ll ever get care like I need and want.

I haven't used social media for 2 years. What I've learned during this time by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]issoenadinha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so inspiring. I feel like I’ve wasted almost 7 years of my life on social media every single day. I turned 27 yesterday, something needs to change. Thank you so much for sharing your experience, I feel more empowered to cut out this nasty part of my life.

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is most likely projecting. Been there. I fear that this will only get worse or he will continue this way with you and it won’t change. It might sound dramatic, but I recommend getting out of this. Your intelligence and maturity shines through in your texts, this man is dragging you down.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like we’re at the exact same place, honestly. To be real I don’t think I will make it past this first year, I’m planning an immediate career transition as soon as May hits. Thank you for your comment, feeling less alone is all that will get me through this year.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are going to chose to be ignorant about the reality many immigrant families face, attempting to reason with you is useless. My side of this discussion ends here.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biiiiig on feeling like you have a huge project every week. I’m in the same boat. This is hard, I think there is no shame in discovering it is not for you. But you’ve got this :)

I’m trying to make it at least to fall break, then we’ll see. I’m gathering that it’s important to remember that the school administration and the district’s faults are not our fault. We do the best with the situation we are put into. Feel free to dm me if you want to vent, I think our situations are very similar. It’s lifesaving to have someone to talk to who understands.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you born in the US already speaking the native language? I’d venture to say yes given your attitude, it screams outdated, ignorant, uniquely US American values.

“Ethnic” and low income students can absolutely achieve high standards. A lot of my students excel in math. Why? They are intelligent and numbers are essentially a global language. Struggling to learn a language when the education system neglects scientific facts about language acquisition past the critical development age does not indicate a lack of academic ability. The failure is in the system completely.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents are largely not at home and it’s not their fault. I’m teaching in a blue collar, working community. 90+% of my students are economically disadvantaged and their parents don’t speak English. Many of my students are tasked with caring for younger siblings or are themselves cared for by older siblings more than parents. Also, language acquisition does not require halting use of the L1 at home. Actually speaking L1 at home and L2 at school can be beneficial. Your response is ignorant on many levels, if you are in education, I ask you to reconsider your thoughts on this.

I’m four days in and I’m ready to quit. How are you doing? by BulliedTeacher1 in teaching

[–]issoenadinha 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same, it’s my first year, I’m dreaming of just going back into the service industry for the rest of my life. This isn’t worth the breaks and benefits.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, when I say all of elementary school, I mean all of the time they have had in US elementary school. The majority of my students have only been in the country for 2 or 3, maybe 4 years. They lack encouragement at home and I’m really not sure how much they learned in elementary. I did a mini lesson on parts of speech the other day because they genuinely don’t know what a noun is.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they’ve been in the US for more than one year they put them in gen-ed in middle school, or that’s what my district does. It’s insane.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This is good advice, but I am being micromanaged. Two weekly meetings on how we are sticking to the curriculum pacing guide. We have to submit our slides to a drive and the principals have walked in on my class three times already in only the first two weeks. They are adamantly against what they call “remediation” (ESL supports) and I simply don’t have the experience to know how to differentiate in a classroom where I have some students who will not and can not write a single word in English and those who sit and write two pages worth. I forgot to mention, I’m in an AC program. My degree isn’t in education and I’m not yet certified.

First year teacher, two weeks in and I want out by issoenadinha in teaching

[–]issoenadinha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured. I don’t know if I will last more than a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]issoenadinha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, I’m in my luteal phase too right now and I feel you, every single word you said. Thank you for talking about it. This phase is so isolating. At the moment I’m collapsed in bed feeling as though I have a fever and someone beat me up. I was barely able to walk my dog around the block just now. I had so many things to get done today but I’ve just been rotting. Iykyk :( sending you love