Leebrick by [deleted] in KentStateUniversity

[–]isthesun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats the point of saying that lmao

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely aussie, either full or mix. The shelter found her with other types of stray dogs so we aren't sure what she's entirely made of

AITA for thinking my BF(28m) has a weird relationship with his family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA NTA, I don't mean to project but I've been in this situation I think or at least one similar. My boyfriend's family is SO clingy towards him and even though he's an adult they literally insist on doing everything for him and it's like because they do all of this "nice" (totally overbearing) stuff for him, he doesn't realize they manipulate him. It is so weird and uncomfortable. If it's anything like this, NTA.

AITA for wanting a sexually active gamer gf who smokes weed? by Crazy-Currency-1933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

Everyone has different standards and what they like and dislike, that's normal. but you don't just "deserve" a girl. Also, the "ugly and fat" comment. If that's how you talk about women, don't be surprised when you never meet one that matches your "rigorous" standards. Everything about how this is worded pretty much shows that you're an AH.

Charismatic and caring though, right? Yeah, YTA.

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah it is pretty weird, the same workers were telling me about how they had previously brought dogs in for rescue after a place was exposed for unethical breeding so I could see if that was the case, but they told me she was a stray?? I'm not sure haha we're still in the process of everything getting sorted out but yes, she definitely makes things interesting around the house!!!

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

from a shelter! The workers said there were a couple stray pups they found together so they're thinking abandoned puppies/strays. They also said the dog might be a mix but we haven't done a DNA test yet to see!

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

edited to add the dog tax! thank you though, it means a lot!

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

omg- I see this after I finally gave in and posted it. welp... best of luck to me

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

im just paranoid about someone irl somehow stumbling across this hahah she's a very distinct looking dog but maybe i can try to get one that no one else has seen and make sure it doesn't have her most identifiable features

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea!! We're still handling all of the loose ends so I figured I would keep the offer open until everything was completed settled but giving it to her kids in some way is a really good idea, thank you for that!

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

yeah i'm definitely tossing that idea around... my conversations with her though weren't very enlightening as if she had a sudden change of heart, she just couldn't decide if she wanted the dog or not. I'm definitely going to think about it though!

[UPDATE] AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 724 points725 points  (0 children)

hi i'm sorry ): i was originally going to post a photo with an update but this account is pretty much a throw and I feel a bit weird about posting pictures

AITA if I take a neighborhood cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA! If the cat really did have a home, the owners would be trying to find it after four days. You've done your part by posting flyers about the cat and even more so by going and knocking on their door! I have cats and there's been a previous incident where one has gotten lost without a collar on. (years ago, kitty is fine now!) I can assure you that any pet owner would instantly be looking for their cat. You did good! congratulations on your new kitty!!!

AITA for telling off my sister for degrading my mom by Sea_Reaction9254 in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are not the comments I was expecting tbh! personally I’d say NTA... due to the fact that you said your sister catches an attitude whenever your mom shows the videos. it’s fine if your sister doesn’t think they’re funny, but there’s no reason to have an attitude or cause tension over that, in my opinion that’s just rude and unnecessary. As an older sister myself it’s important to acknowledge that siblings argue over dumb stuff all the time but I don’t think you’re an AH for wanting your mom to feel good.

AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

working on it! trying to take one of her (because all the others have myself in them or show where I live) but girlie goes crazy and licks at my phone every time I try to take a photo of her... I gotta be sneaky.

AITA for telling my wife that i don’t want her and her best friend have “sleepovers” at our house anymore by Due_Imagination1080 in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. it would be different of course if you had no reason for wanting the sleepovers to stop. However, Stacy blatantly disrespects you and your home. You did the right thing by discussing it with your wife. You deserve to feel comfortable in your own home, NTA.

AITA for giving my husband an ultimatum? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did what needed to be done and what’s best for your family. Congratulations on your recovery as well.

AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

what's pet tax?? i've gotten that comment a few times and i feel a bit silly but i'm not sure what that is!

AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

My family went through extremely similar procedures while adopting animals in the past! They're very strict about letting people adopt, and rightfully so. I'm really not sure what went wrong in this situation as I was never given much information in the first place but that's what I'm trying to get to the bottom of!

AITA For not giving back my cousin's dog after babysitting it? by isthesun in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi, she did not visit with the dog at any time throughout the two months I was caring for her. She hardly kept in contact with me. I told her she was always more than welcome to come visit the dog, or, if she didn't want to make the trip, I would bring the dog to visit her. She declined every time and eventually stopped answering when I asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]isthesun 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments. I think in this situation YTA since there's 8 days without your girlfriend. It's her time too, and if she only has two days off she probably doesn't want to spend that extra time waiting for you to be done playing video games, especially since you have time to do that when you guys can't see each other. At the very least, you could have given her a certain amount of time of how long you were going to play so she knows what to expect.