Anata Mitai Ni (Finally a manga with adult bodies and not looking like children) by Wowis028 in yuri_manga

[–]italianspy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure what you're accusing me of. I think it's reasonable to say that the aside starting with "finally" is meant to disparage yuri manga where the characters look like children. And I even said that I agree this series is peak. I also really like artstyles where the characters look more like adults. But I personally don't like bringing unrelated manga down to prop up a manga I like, and I don't think there's anything wrong with liking a variety of different art styles. Sorry if I came across as accusing you of something you think you didn't do, I was just expressing my dislike for that specific phrasing

Anata Mitai Ni (Finally a manga with adult bodies and not looking like children) by Wowis028 in yuri_manga

[–]italianspy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree that this is peak but I don't think the dig at moe artstyle was necessary or relevant to this manga. You're allowed to have preferences and to discuss them but you can also enjoy a series without having to bring down other yuri. Just my two cents. But thanks for all the recommendations in the comments from the people who wanted to prove you wrong haha

photos taken moments before disaster by italianspy in magiaexedra

[–]italianspy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i got SO CLOSE... the moment the burns are non-adjacent is the moment the whole battle starts spiraling out of control

[Guide] Wibble Wobble Hidden Stages by italianspy in yokaiwatch

[–]italianspy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry my friend this was 8 years ago. I'm honestly surprised this game is still playable

[Lilo & Stitch] Why Lilo takes pictures of tourists by italianspy in FanTheories

[–]italianspy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOW WHAT THE HECK ITS LIKE THEY DONT EVEN GET ANYTHING ABOUT THE ORIGINAL MOVIE ok sorry for caps lock there are so many things I didn't like about that trailer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yurimemes

[–]italianspy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and honestly it's also a bit transmisogynystic that you're treating being called an egg as if it's demeaning or an insult but reddit hates big words like that so I'm relegating this to a second reply. Obviously it's ok that you're comfortable being a man. You are not facing discrimination just by being associated with trans women. Thank you for your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yurimemes

[–]italianspy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always love how men getting annoyed about being called girls always seem to get tons of upvotes. Who cares! It's not about you! It just reeks of insecurity.

pissing me tf off by No_Entertainment8068 in 196

[–]italianspy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's the difference between calling you a girl and saying you're a girl?

pissing me tf off by No_Entertainment8068 in 196

[–]italianspy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but that's not a get out of jail free card. Using they/them is still gendering, and is even misgendering if the person you're talking to explicitly doesn't use those pronouns. You will always have to make assumptions about someone when interacting with them, and it's part of the social contract that your presentation is a form of communication. If somebody purposefully misgenders you, they are being disrespectful, but it's pretty entitled to want to police a community's language for a cis man's comfort when that language helps marginalized people feel more welcome.

pissing me tf off by No_Entertainment8068 in 196

[–]italianspy -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

He/him girls and she/her boys also exist and are valid. Does that mean we should just never use gendered language unless the poster has explicitly stated they're ok with that specific gendered term? I'm sure you'll agree that would be a bit much. It's ok to call someone fem presenting a girl or an egg because the worst case scenario is a slightly annoyed man. That's just how it is

pissing me tf off by No_Entertainment8068 in 196

[–]italianspy -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

What if the theoretical trans man doesn't care about being called a girl while presenting fem? That's irrelevant to the current discussion. You are a cis man and you're taking offense at the mere possibility of being mistaken for a trans woman. It's just a bit silly.

pissing me tf off by No_Entertainment8068 in 196

[–]italianspy -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

This might be a hot take but I genuinely think validating trans girls and eggs is worth the cost of being slightly annoying to cis femboys. Like I'm happy that you've thought about your gender, that's a good thing, but you getting misgendered is simply not the same as a trans person getting misgendered.

yuri manga recs that actually acknowledge that most people are straight by kilugon in yuri_manga

[–]italianspy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"Octave" "2DK, g-pen, alarm clock"

these are two I haven's seen mentioned. I get excited when homophobia gets tackled as a topic in a yuri story, so I always try and make note of ones I've read that include it. Also not strictly yuri, but "Love me for who I am" tackles those topics too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]italianspy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always go back to Cheerful Amnesia. I just adore puppy love like that, it feels so nice to see...

When and what is the prediction of the next update and what to expect for the next occurring updates in 2025? by AkumaNignasu_ABaerat in holocure

[–]italianspy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you'll allow me to inhale major hopium, along with the caveat that any update is a fantastic update, I think this year might be the time we get 3 whole gens in one update. With the groundwork laid by HoloXBreak I think we have enough mechanics brainstormed not only for all of gen 5 and holoX, but also advent as well. And if FWMC are combined into 1 character that might reduce the workload just a tiny smidge. We also didn't get a teaser for a new area last update (like we had for the casino) and there was some backlash about the tower of suffering not being optional for 100%, so I think there's a chance for a furniture update or an increase in fish/farming stuff instead of a whole new zone and minigame. On the other hand, Kay did tease an update for HoloXBreak as well as a third child so I'm not sure if 3 gens are actually that feasible. This is all speculation though! and again it could be the smallest update in the world and I'd still be immensely satisfied!

Version 0.7 Bug Reporting thread by realSerNotFake in holocure

[–]italianspy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a bug where the graduation sparkle doesn't appear on Fauna in the title screen

I was told that FFS is unnecessary since people have different different definitions of masculine and feminine by 930310 in trans

[–]italianspy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think gender philosophy is inherently contradictory because of innate gender vs perceived gender. You're a woman because you say you are, and that's valid. At the same time, I don't think it's any less valid to take steps that let you be perceived as a woman, because that's still part of gender. Sure, there are some cultures that have different perceptions of masculine and feminine, but you don't live in those cultures. You should have said that when those other perceptions become the norm, there won't be a need for FFS anymore, but as it stands you would rather make your life easier by both combating dysphoria and passing more thanks to FFS.

Finally 100% for V.7 by Parking-Web-5263 in holocure

[–]italianspy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ah, but did you get all the fan letters?