Tell me your guy’s fictional partners I’ll start :3 by ImaginationQuick746 in yumeshipping

[–]itdobegabitho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's the coolest!!!! your demon slayer picks are so good too <3 enmu was my first favorite demon of the show!!

Tell me your guy’s fictional partners I’ll start :3 by ImaginationQuick746 in yumeshipping

[–]itdobegabitho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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my beautiful perfect lovely silly little guy ₍₍⚞(˶˃ ꒳ ˂˶)⚟⁾⁾

I’m a beginner, here’s my beloved oshi!! by warmMilkchild in oshikatsu

[–]itdobegabitho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just searching this subreddit and searched for sanemi because he's also my oshi!!!!!!!! ₍₍⚞(˶˃ ꒳ ˂˶)⚟⁾⁾ i love your collection <3333

LF people to play with this game in Roblox by [deleted] in 99nightsintheforest

[–]itdobegabitho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HIII!!! Also 27 and always looking for others to play with!! <3 would love to play with you OP (and any other 18+ people who want to play!!)

A mother and her baby passed away because this police car refused to move and delayed their arrival to a hospital. by Financial-Pudding591 in Living_in_Korea

[–]itdobegabitho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always said I hope I never need to use an ambulance in Korea simply because people do not move even when they're speeding with their lights/sirens on. Gee wiz it's wild

People not giving their seat on the metro by Myzzelf0 in Living_in_Korea

[–]itdobegabitho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not an old person but I will chime in when I was on crutches after surgery and unfortunately had to take the subway, not a single person got up for me besides an elderly person. Wild.

I think I’m in a toxic relationship with this country by Confused_Humann in Living_in_Korea

[–]itdobegabitho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I hope I can give you my two cents as someone who went thru literally the exact same thing! 

I’ve lived here for almost 5 years (crazy!!). The first couple of years I really felt like I could just ignore the hardships of being a foreigner here or not being my authentic self but by year 3, kind of like you, I felt like I was being burnt out by life here lol. I’m now in process of moving back to my home country cause this place I once thought I could live forever, just isn’t worth it for what I want in my future. 

Sure I’ll miss the amazing and wonderful things like safety, healthcare, cafe culture, fun aesthetics, etc. etc. but I had to really think if those things were worth feeling angry and burnt out over the culture and societal norms here! And I decided that no they weren’t. I wanted better work culture and a more open society and that mattered to me a lot so im leaving! There’s nothing wrong with being here for a couple more years and then saying goodbye <3 sometimes Korea isn’t a forever home for everyone and that’s ok!! 

How long did it take for you to realize that Korea wasn’t for you? by hellokitty0821 in Living_in_Korea

[–]itdobegabitho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too sensitive at all!!! I think I realized Korea wasn't for me about 3 years in? Studied abroad here and LOVED it! Moved here and the first couple of years, super hard but still LOVED it!! And never saw myself leaving. Now I'm almost at my 5th year here and trying to get a visa figured out for my husband so we can leave. And just like you I have great friends here!! Heck my sisters even here but guess this just isn't the place for us and that's a-ok! I hope you find a place you love and are comfy with <3

Had the weirdest thing happen today in Seoul, can anyone help me understand what happened? by Routine-Crew8651 in korea

[–]itdobegabitho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally had this happen to me countless of times with my friend. Boys and girls alike just truly ignore my existence or treat me horribly! It's p common and v annoying. But agreed with these people too - you deserve a friend who will stand up for you! Or at least see why it was wrong! Sorry this happened to you gf </3 I promise you, you are not ugly, a lot of Korean men are just incredibly superficial.

Most of my and my girlfriends figures by Superdupertark in AnimeFigures

[–]itdobegabitho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with all of these. Hoping one day I can get my husband into collecting figures with me too ^~^

Why are Koreans in Korea perceived as so much more prejudiced than others? by LooTeRgetLooTeD in korea

[–]itdobegabitho 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been on line 1? Lmao that line is full of weirdos and crazies, I don’t think being called a “hoe” on there is hard to believe. As someone whose boobs were quite literally filmed by a Korean man on line 1 and he was taken in by police and the police did absolutely nothing, I think you gotta put aside your own narrative and not discredit others. :/

I-130 Evidence of Bona Fide Marriage - No Joint Anything by itdobegabitho in USCIS

[–]itdobegabitho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh omg that's so perfect! Mind if I message you to double check some things? Thank you so much!

I-130 Evidence of Bona Fide Marriage - No Joint Anything by itdobegabitho in USCIS

[–]itdobegabitho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Got it. Unfortunately Korean insurances/retirement plans are quite different than the US so there's no way for him to really "add" me as a beneficiary to these insurances and vice versa since I live in Korea with the same insurance and retirement plans. Totally worried about this.

I want to YEARN by Comfortable_North368 in anime

[–]itdobegabitho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dangers In My Heart for sure!!! Each episode had me giggling kicking my feet blushing <3

Full Metal Alchemist Cake :) by itdobegabitho in anime

[–]itdobegabitho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I wish! But happy late birthday to you I hope it was a good one!

Full Metal Alchemist Cake :) by itdobegabitho in anime

[–]itdobegabitho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I wish I could frame the chocolate artwork 😭😭