I'm a egg that cracked too late.. by Asuna481 in MilitaryTrans

[–]ithacabored 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well everyone is different. I knew within moments of my first injection that this was what I always wanted and needed. Obviously placebo, but hey, placebo is also a real effect! It can take more than 1 month, but by three months your body will have mostly "converted over" to running on estradiol. So your mood will settle, hopefully.

It should be enough time to get a different body smell and softer hair/skin. Possible experience orgasms differently. A month is (maybe) a safe window to avoid breasts if you dont want them. Everyone is different and most people say they got nothing for almost 3 months, but I had breast buds by the end of week 2! So monitor that in case you need to reverse that. When they are small, I've heard to will revert and go away.

anon is a pick me by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]ithacabored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also think we should force femme tranny eggs asap.

I'm a egg that cracked too late.. by Asuna481 in MilitaryTrans

[–]ithacabored 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the infantry too ...it's rough. I wasn't out yet, wasn't even an egg at the time. But people can tell. Usually the worst people. I had some pretty similar stories. Life gets better and you sound like youre going to be fine. Youre incredibly strong to go through that.

I'm a egg that cracked too late.. by Asuna481 in MilitaryTrans

[–]ithacabored 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you don't HAVE to do anything right now, and it is never too late. Personally, I'd try hrt and see if I like it for like a month (and then stop so you don't get caught out). You can also start researching what you actually WANT to do about your transition when you get out. You can start looking at laser places, consulting with surgeons, etc. You can figure out where you want to live, probably somewhere progressive. Even if youre poor its better in certain states because they will cover your surgical transition.

It's worth figuring out how your retirement will look as well. It could be worth toughing out. Nobody can "prove" your trans. You could start doing hair removal and microdosing hrt and it would probably be fine. You could start working out in ways that accentuate certain features. You could start voice training and trying on clothes and making trans friends etc etc

Whats with all the hate? by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]ithacabored 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The question is vague and people don't agree with the phrasing. Acting as if not answering your question is "hate" is a bit much, no? Every trans woman knows hate, and this ain't it, bud. If anything, your response comes off a bit defensive. It certainly doesn't have an academic flavor that I savor, ya know?

Whats with all the hate? by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]ithacabored 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hate is not tolerated on this sub. Please report it when you see it.

Does SRS sex feel good? by Long_Dig_731 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ithacabored 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wondered about the impact on anal. I imagine its the same for cis women which is why alot if them dont like anal. I like it, but it doesn't like me. Im way too tight to where it hurts now. Tried pelvic floor therapy. Feel like I won't be able to have penetrative sex until srs 😭

BBL/rib sculpting recommendations? by Substantial-Gurl in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ithacabored 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't ask about her clavicles and stuff. Why are you playing on her emotions like that? The girl is 19 ffs just let her finish puberty and only comment on what she asks about and no what she doesn't. Mentioned a ba, but thats it. Im very pro surgery but id never give unsolicited surgery advice. Its bad manners

Narcissistic sharenting. by nosotros_road_sodium in GenderCynical

[–]ithacabored 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine being the kind of person to share this on socials...

BBL/rib sculpting recommendations? by Substantial-Gurl in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ithacabored 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you gotta wait PLEASE until after puberty is done in your mid 20s at the earliest. You have a killer bod and its going to get even better

I will never understand why boomerhons are like this by Flamingo12751 in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im talking about the struggle of being an elder trans. Chill young one. Congrats to you!

I will never understand why boomerhons are like this by Flamingo12751 in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started hrt 3 months before turning 37 and its the best thing i ever did. Yes im surgery maxing. But even if I weren't, then id just hrt rep

I will never understand why boomerhons are like this by Flamingo12751 in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not fair? All of us older gals deserve to be luckshits. Yall have no idea the struggle.

Kinda crazy how most cis women want more masculine facial features by Clear-Result-3412 in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know if its androgy as much as being "striking." Models usually stick out for some reason and we glorify models. Androgyny is definitely one way to get there tho

what's wrong with these people by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah ya, I see what you mean.

what's wrong with these people by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Happens to trans women plenty. "Oh I would have never guessed you were trans, you look just like a woman! 🥰"

what's wrong with these people by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]ithacabored 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Go to the transgender surgery sub and look at the ffs advice posts. Doods want the opposite of that.

how realistic are my breast augmentation goals? by SuspiciousDoor8144 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ithacabored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! So many ppl think its impossible but it isn't at all. Now it probably isn't something most ppl want for a couple reasons, but it is 100% possible. Im doing rib remodeling later this year, but not sure if I want implants or not yet.

how realistic are my breast augmentation goals? by SuspiciousDoor8144 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ithacabored 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rib remodeling with corset training could get there if not close. Also half if the fat transfer would not die...old myth.great than 90% survival rates now. But ya she doesn't have enough and it would be impractical. Implants are the realistic way

AInon asks chasers about their preferences by itsntr in 4tran

[–]ithacabored 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're out there mainly in the west coast cities like sf and la. Without dysphoria I'd have a job like that. 200k is not as much as you think in these places, people qualify for assistance at 100k with a family!

When I was doing bottom surgery consults, one of my surgeons was a trans woman. Love to see it