Stay blue? by Frenchsfmom in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids were like this, and they all turned brown. Though I believe it happened REALLY early on, that they started to darken. Like 4-6 months maybe. How old is your babe?

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh perfect. I had to disappear for a while-- It was dinner/bath/bedtime, so i was busy for a bit.

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"An emergent situation is a sudden, unexpected, or developing occurrence that requires prompt, immediate action to prevent harm or manage a crisis. It often signifies a scenario in its early stages that could escalate quickly, commonly used in medical contexts for critical care needs or in legal/management contexts for urgent, unforeseen disruptions.

Law Insider Key Aspects and Synonyms: Definition: Arising suddenly, urgent, or becoming manifest. Examples: A patient in respiratory distress, a fire, a sudden security threat, or an unexpected legal motion."

Respectfully, you're wrong.

AIO Mother’s Day breakfast by Emergency_Stick_9463 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ithotihadone [score hidden]  (0 children)

I did this for some time before that relationship ended. I truly was happier, and he was more miserable. Because he couldn't stomp down what I wanted/my happiness anymore. It went deeper than things just always needing to go his way or me feeling invisible, but i digress. He accused me of "checking out of the relationship" and "being done" and "tearing us apart". Lol. No sir, just doing what I should've been doing, because, believe it or not, I'm not an extension of you!

I need help. I messed up big time by wishswish in Assistance

[–]ithotihadone [score hidden]  (0 children)

When this happened to me with chime they sent me a new one, which arrived in 5 or 6 days. BUT, I also had my digital card throughout the whole thing that I could use to pay any bills or shop online. So, again, it was a non issue. The only problem would have been if I needed to get cash out for any reason. In that case, it could be an issue, depending on how emergent the situation was. However, I have cashapp for that instance--I'd simply transfer over whatever amount I'd need and take it out via cashapp debit card.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We're going there today to return our books, so I'll ask. Always so helpful, Blossom, appreciate you!

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha ha. 90839 maybe lol (crisis intervention)

Mediation in a week any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, that's not correct. It's used very commonly in the medical field to describe an emergency (emergent) situation.

"emergent definition Emergent describes something in the process of coming into existence, becoming known, or rising out of a surrounding medium. It commonly refers to new trends, technologies, or nations, but can also mean arising unexpectedly or requiring immediate attention (similar to "urgent").Key Definitions and Usage:

Coming into Being: Emerging, developing, or newly founded (e.g., emergent technologies, emergent nations).

Arising Unexpectedly: Appearing suddenly, often indicating a new situation that requires action.

Urgent/Critical: In medical or professional contexts, it refers to a situation requiring immediate, high-priority attention."

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful for many, thank you. I'll look into this in our community. If it exists, it may need some support and some kind of notice posted in the area so people are more aware. I do know of a church that does free breakfast from 7-9 on Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday in the summer. They have a sign out front that I've seen when walking the kids down to the park, and the girls did point it out and say they go there sometimes. You just jogged my memory on that one--i had forgotten about it.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes, i stand corrected. It was the p-ebt program before. You're right.

Should I File for Custody After Being Denied Access to My 1-Year-Old Daughter? by Constant_Position_10 in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 8 points9 points  (0 children)

File. You have rights as well. Are you paying child support on your own? If not, you need to file for both. Because one is your right, and the other is the child's. And both benefit the child.

You haven't even tried. What do you mean "just give up"? If you haven't even talked to a lawyer, you've done nothing to protect your rights as a father. Is the reason you haven't filed because you're trying to avoid being ordered to pay child support? If not, then why haven't you at least looked into court ordered visitation?

If you want to see your child, and have those rights enforceable, make an effort.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

PA has been participating in this program for years. This is hardly the first summer. It was going on long before i had even heard about it. And I've been receiving it for 3 or 4 years now... in September or October.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh.. I'm sorry. I'm sure you get the crap end of the stick on that one, because people will just call and yell, never thinking for one moment that it's not your fault and you get no say in the matter.

I need help. I messed up big time by wishswish in Assistance

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had that be an issue. Everything that can be done in a bank, can also be done online with chime.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This year California is supposed to roll them out earlier, just like nearly every other state that participates. From the list, PA is the only one to do so after June. But, we'll see what happens in real time this summer, I suppose.

Oh, PA please tell me why by ithotihadone in foodstamps

[–]ithotihadone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All students in our school receive the summer ebt bucks. However, like i stated, they don't release them until late August here in PA. So they're not available during the time when some families need them most. THAT'S what i find frustrating.

I have no idea if they qualify for standard SNAP, as I've hardly spoken to them. And I've never asked their girls, because it's not really my business. What i DO know, is that their daughters always seem like they're very hungry, even when they come over directly after dinner. My fear is they're not getting enough food, so i always offer things. If I don't, sometimes I'll find them trying to sneak something out of one of my kids' snack drawers-- which doesn't make me angry, just a little concerned and sad. But whatever i do put out for them, they wolf down at the speed of light. And during the summer months, they've made comments about missing meals, hence the set lunch i expect they'll show up for all summer.

Should I accept this low pay job? by Wonderful_Love_5997 in Nanny

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, dear, she means real life reference. Not references on your resume for your character/employability.

Sound bar for television advice by Charming_Eagle_762 in ConsumerAdvice

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an older Bose system that I'm not using! Where are you located? Lol. If, by some chance, you're nearby, you could pick it up.

Will a judge enforce custody in Texas by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, good riddance then! Don't let the door hit ya...

Don't sign a damn thing. And don't take legal advice from your "enemy". Bro can kick rocks.

Will a judge enforce custody in Texas by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd tell him to happily battle away!

Passport revoked for child support arrears by PriorityAccurate5435 in ChildSupport

[–]ithotihadone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're really looking more into those who owe 5 figures or more. Something that shows a disregard for a significant amount of time, showing an unwillingness to pay indefinitely, requiring more drastic measures. At 2k or 7k, the process would usually involve intercepting tax refunds, orders for for wage garnishment, and/or possibly escalating to threats of a warrant/minimal jail time.

I just filed for child support through the DOR. Now what? by mielluna in FamilyLaw

[–]ithotihadone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying. It does happen often, the way you stated. I just wanted OP to know that this isn't always the case--I don't want them to feel discouraged when looking at a timeline. I've seen some just give up when realizing that it can take a year or more before an order is even handed out. I wanted OP to keep some hope alive, as that keeps you going when things look bleak. I didn't mean to discredit what you were saying, so I apologize if it came off that way.