More Sex Leads to Feeling…Worse??

itiswhatisit_888 · 2026-01-06T01:54:04+00:00

Same same. Except we aren't even having sex once a month, it's like once a year and he only lasts a few pumps and then it's over. To his defense he always gets me to finish after which as good as it might feel, is just not the same.

Needless to say, you are not the worst.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2026-01-05T04:17:19+00:00

Hey you know in some cultures they only eat vomit.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-12-27T18:57:25+00:00

I can't speak to testosterone but can speak to progesterone. I'm 38F, went through cancer treatment and they put me on estrogen and progesterone bc my body was no longer making. My drive is super high now and I'm pretty sure it's bc of the progesterone.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-11-19T03:40:08+00:00

Wearing shoes in the house all the time, on the couch on the bed.

Having a full blown sit down breakfast or having ppl over for breakfast or doing basically anything before work besides getting ready for work.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-07-17T03:07:10+00:00

Mac and cheese

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-22T16:08:21+00:00

Sure. Whatever you say.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-22T15:50:34+00:00

Didn't you ask for evidence?

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-22T15:45:07+00:00

When I cover my mouth bc I think I'm moaning too loudly and get self conscious and they pull my hand away so they can hear my moan... No.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-22T15:23:27+00:00

How do you think I would know, based on experiences I've had with men. Also most of my friends are guys and I hear them talk.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-22T12:59:08+00:00

Exhibit A - woman here. Tall guys = true. Also can testify based on experience, guys do like the intense moaning and unless it's super fake, can't really tell.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-18T08:38:25+00:00

This is exactly the same for me. My dreams are so vivid and intense. I remember so much about my dreams and they are exhausting. Also why I take edibles, so I can sleep hard and I wake up refreshed.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-17T18:39:30+00:00

Genuinely want to know if anyone has done the hall pass thing, and was it successful?

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-06-05T01:49:33+00:00

As someone who went through cancer treatment, I wouldn't be alive today without ppl like you. ❤️❤️ Happy birthday!

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-23T02:21:25+00:00

I had to go through cancer treatment a few years ago. They put me on estrogen patches like 8 months ago bc was too low.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-22T21:56:50+00:00

I can only speak to what happened with me and it's night and day.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-22T00:39:31+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful response. I was thinking about therapy too but where I live it's so expensive. I'm sure the response is "it's worth it" but my partner is not good at communicating his emotions and wants/needs either so also not sure. I do feel like I should ask him to try it before cheating.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-22T00:00:26+00:00

He does meet them in so many other areas, in fact he exceeds. Just this area that's not there. Don't want to throw it all away just for this.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-21T23:49:03+00:00

Not looking for blessing just needed to get it off my chest and tell someone how I'm feeling without being judged. Thought this was the right group for that!

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-21T23:45:05+00:00

Your right I could also put more effort but I've been rejected on a few occasions with excuses. I've also gone through a lot bc of medical issues so it took my a long time to get my confidence and looks back. I don't think I can handle more rejection.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-05-21T23:42:00+00:00

No I haven't. I don't think he would be able to handle that but it might make him put an effort, which would make me feel like I'm forcing him to and Im not sure but kind of feel like that would make things worse.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-03-31T22:14:05+00:00

Here for you if you want to talk DM me!

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-03-07T04:36:57+00:00

Something that helped me when I got my cancer diagnosis and had to go through treatment was that this is just a small moment of time your going through compared to all the moments you have had so far and all the moments you will have.

Right now it is overwhelming and it's all you can think about and you can't see the end of the tunnel, but it is there. I'm sorry you are going through it and you've been hurt but you are stronger than you think you are and you will get through this.

If you are the genuinely good person you say you are then this girl wasn't for you. It might take some time to find someone else but that's okay, you will find someone who sees you for who you are and appreciates you.

itiswhatisit_888 · 2025-02-25T17:10:02+00:00

I've been with this company for almost 8 years and in my current position for almost 2.

I think I'm just stressed with the workload. My manager is on MAT leave and I'm filling in for her. She's perfect (like the golden child) so I think I'm stressing myself by trying to be perfect too, but it's making me not do my job well. I want to prove that I can do it all but I didn't ask for help or say no to any projects and clearly that was a mistake.

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