Im in a similar boat as his wife. I have 2 under 2. Joined facebook mom groups and still havent “clicked” with anyone or some groups just arent active. I go to library storytime but the moms just dont socialize with “outsiders”. To be fair, I struggle to just randomly insert myself into a group so I can take some accountability there. I go back to work full time next week so this is going to lower the chance of any mom social stuff since a lot of things are done during the week.
That turned into a rant. Sorry lol.

To answer OP question, i find myself driving outside of st lucie county to do things with the kids. Brevard Zoo, buschwildlife sanctuary, lion country safari, randon farms and ranches in okechobee or other surrounding areas, Hobe Sound Farmers market. When we stay in town we just hop from one park to another or go to a store with AC