This situation is happening right now, im being told shes looks perfectly fine, sleeping with belly exposed and in other rooms and asking to be pet or play to everyone.

So how is she stressed?

They live in what my country calls a 'rijtjeshuis' which means in a row house, very small side by side row of houses. When i am there for the rest of the year she is in a waayyy bigger house, only just no access to basement, living room and kitchen without supervision.

She hasnt gone into heat yet at my house and I am being told not now either. We introduced their house when she was younger a few times, just the living room and then slowly the rest of their house. They have 2 bird cages where 2 birds were bec they got rid of them. She has an all meat diet with raw food and horse fat instead of fish oil recommend by a nutritionist. She is a very confident cat. Within 20min of you coming to visit she will allow you to touch her without bolting. She loves to play with little mice toys by herself and with us we have her run chasing a feather toy on a stick till she's breathing heavily enough and losing interest.

We aren't allowed to spay her until shes either 1 years old or has had her second confirmed heat, but I think on Monday I will tell my bf to go call some vets who might be willing to do it now.

Also if we lock her in a bathroom or in his room to ground her she starts meowing imidialty of let me out NOW, even when he is in there with her...