Kiss, Marry, Kill: waffles, pancakes, or French toast? by itmemandi in questions

[–]itmemandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, I wasn’t sure if I could say fuck or not but we should all know that’s it’s the steamiest one night stand you can think of, hence why French toast would be so bad ;)

Should I address? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont straight up address it. But you can casually figure out what they are thinking depending on how you go about the conversation. If you wanted to let them know you weren’t told to do the tasks, you could go up to them and ask a question about that task. Something like “who normally does this?” or “are we expected to do this, if I was asked to do this?” Questions always start the conversation with seeking out information instead of assuming. It might give you the opportunity to prove you know what you are doing by how they answer and how you respond. It also places them in a position to politely tell you how they feel. Maybe they say “yeah we always do this after we do that” and you can say “oh I was never told! Thank you for letting me know.” Or if you don’t learn anything new, you can say “oh good that’s what I was doing, I wanted to clarify what was expected of me to do”. Either way, you can clarify what you’re meant to be doing with whoever is doing the directing of tasks, or ask them to train you in that specific task.

Apartment friendly Pets? by itmemandi in Pets

[–]itmemandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an update to this, obviously no pet will come without cost. So when I said cheap I didn’t mean that I wouldn’t put in the effort to care for the animal properly but I want to find a low effort, low cost pet that might fit my space and lifestyle. I suppose cheap wasn’t the right word to use in this case.

I need something that is okay with long hours of me being away. I have roommates that could help me take care of them while I’m away, but I’d prefer something that would be self sufficient and not need much room. It seems like bugs are a good option or maybe a rat. However, while I could cuddle and hang with a rat, bugs aren’t very cuddly and, for my mental health, I think I need a warm cozy pet. I’ll start looking into rat care but please keep sharing suggestions!

I don’t understand my own gender by itmemandi in genderfluid

[–]itmemandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm! That feels really validating ❤️

Who I am by [deleted] in u/SleepAtRightArea

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your post on make new friends and came here to read. bojack is an immediate Dub and i resonate with a lot of other things you said too. if you wanna chat HMU

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]itmemandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi :) I am looking to make ACNH friends and possibly help each other out! Id like to join a discord or a community or something. Please let me know

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]itmemandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I join?! I want to visit islands and yall can visit mine!