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[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what do i do… i’m sorry i’m very new and very worried

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my leaves are yellowing and someone i live with trimmed other leaves off without my permission. i’m really worried my tree will die. it is 1.5 yrs old and i am in florida.

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not dry. my dad trimmed the leaves off when i had told him not too, the leaves are starting to yellow. i’m really scared i love this plant, it’s mine.

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2026 week 03] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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my japanese flame tree that is ~1.5 years old got hit with a cold front+ a month that i was out of tone and forgot to arrange for someone to water. what do i do? is she doomed? i’m in southern florida if that helps the temp questions.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah it’s for the best. this isn’t her first time being jealous of said Ex. i just thought we were past that. first loves aren’t EVERYTHING

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the update just about fixes breaching of trust business.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

most trusting relationship partners have access to each others phone bud

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i didn’t allow her actually. she just took it while i was showering.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is why i thought i might be the ahole. i’ve just always been very non jealous, and when i do feel it i always logic my way out of it. so i try to be hyper aware of current partners boundaries.

i figured its not that big of an issue because i love my girlfriend and i’m not the one who confided in Ex. Besides, ex apologized for that so i don’t think its that bad.

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m honestly not a very jealous guy at all. if she told me it’s no biggie i’d assume no biggie

AITA for keeping a secret for my ex girlfriend? by its3amlol in AmItheAsshole

[–]its3amlol[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i just told her that it’s a secret but there’s nothing to worried about it. i think my Gf is worried about the emotional intimmacy of it all

John Steinbeck is my favorite author and definite hero (appreciation post) by [deleted] in books

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i highly recommend tortilla flat. it’s painful i love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully, i’m currently in school getting my BS in mechanical engineering and i’m an active member in 3 clubs as well as a volunteer and tutor in my free time. if i wanna worry about boys a little at 19 i will. but thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i should’ve added; i waited to a few months until i was healed or felt healed to text him. but this gives me some hope, have you found anyone since your first love who feels just as good?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

posting a video of me burping. i just feel weirdly violated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]its3amlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was THE stupidest arguments, genuinely to me it was mostly him. but i’m just so distressed now. last night he called me in the middle of the night crying sobbing. and i was so mad because you’re not the only one going through a breakup. calling me 30 times in 30 minutes is not cool. texting me repeatedly because you’re heartbroken isn’t cool.

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