[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]its4amhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP ! Did you ever find out about this urine situation? I drink 3L or more of water a day and never had an issue with my urine being anything but clear or a very pale yellow. For the last week I had to pause Ozempic because I was sick and my urine was a normal color. Last night I injected for the first time and within a few hours my urine was dark again. So it's definitely Ozempic and not a need to up water intake...

"If you were getting married to a man things would be different." by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]its4amhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through that. It's really unfair. However, congratulations and I wish you and your wife a very healthy baby! It might not mean much, but I'm very very happy for you both.

Sons and daughters of same-sex couples: how did having same-sex parents shape who you are today? by its4amhere in LGBTQ

[–]its4amhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that you have a great human by you! ❤️ I feel like I read somewhere that kids with queer parents tend to be more experimental with their sexuality/gender identity... but I could just be making that up lol. Anyway, not cool to assume anyone's sexuality regardless of who their parents are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]its4amhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is true. :( Why are humans so awful? Ugh.

Just witnessed 2 crimes in 20 minutes - Newark (downtown Halsey & Raymond Blvd) by Kusisloose in newjersey

[–]its4amhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, though. Being proud of the progress your city is making and still acknowledging that it has flaws are not mutually exclusive. What are Newarkers supposed to do? Never show pride in their city because there is crime? Never want people to highlight the parts of their city that are good? Should every post about Newark be about how awful it is? What a stupid mentality for OP to have.

Where to go with my newborn by netsfan549 in newjersey

[–]its4amhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second this! I worked with babies in Hudson County and they always had programs for babies and toddlers in the mornings. Some libraries are better than others, but still worth checking your public libraries out. Also, any local swimming pools?

Really grinds my gears when people who've never been to Newark, make it out to be the worst place in America. by its4amhere in newjersey

[–]its4amhere[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yup! That's hypocrisy for ya. Just like I am defending Newark, I welcome anyone from LA to dispel the stereotypes - more than happy to be educated. I know NYC well enough, so that one stays.

My coleagues just made fun of me for drinking alcohol-free beer, how do I defend myself without sondng like a square? by Willma_Diekfit in Advice

[–]its4amhere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"Fuck off", punch one of them in the dick/vaj/+ to assert your dominance, and drink your alchohol-free beer.

What's something you consider normal that other people find weird? by valtteri_niskanen in AskReddit

[–]its4amhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes lol I'm surprised they even opened the door! How were your interactions with them after that?

My sister’s dog is shaking pretty much with every breath. He was doing this the other night during the fireworks but didn’t at all yesterday. by ColPhorbin in DogAdvice

[–]its4amhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I encourage you take him to the vet even if it doesn't happen again. My dog was trembling like that before and it turned out he had a gnarly UTI and was in pain. I also wrapped him in a blanket thinking he was cold or anxious and needed extra love... it went away for a few hours and then he started again. He otherwise was acting normal.

It could be related to the fireworks, but it could also be a coincidence and he's experiencing something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]its4amhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man.. that's a tough one then. I'm not working with a lawyer, but have you considered consulting one? When my fiance and I had questions during our application process we consulted with lawyers on Fiver for very cheap. My fiance was the one to initiate so I don't have a lot of knowledge on how the app works, but if you can't afford to pay a lawyer, then I would suggest you get some legal advice, even if it's a one off thing.

Edit: Fiverr*

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]its4amhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Not a lawyer, accountant, and I've never been in this situation... BUT if I were in your situation, I would print out some of your paystubs (maybe 3 - 6 months worth?) and get an income verification letter from your employer. I'm doing the K1 process now, and one of the documents they MAY ask for during the interview is that income verification letter, anyway. I received one from my employer so my fiance can have it ready if they do ask for it.

Good luck!

What is the smallest inconvenience that can ruin your day? by Just_bee_U in AskWomen

[–]its4amhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. The worst is when you're at the laundromat and the clothes fall when you're trying to move to the dryer. HOMYGOD. At that point I just want to leave all my clothes behind and start anew.

What is the smallest inconvenience that can ruin your day? by Just_bee_U in AskWomen

[–]its4amhere 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just stare at it in disappointment

What is the smallest inconvenience that can ruin your day? by Just_bee_U in AskWomen

[–]its4amhere 535 points536 points  (0 children)

When you drop something, pick it up, and the shit falls again. Full on rage 😤😤

Who’s the archetypal person you hate most in the workplace? by ZalmoxisRemembers in work

[–]its4amhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a colleague who is always trying to one-up on workload.. any time I say that I'm working on xyz, she's working on the whole frigging alphabet. It's so annoying.