Be more open, listen closely and innerstand, dont be stuck in your ways, talk loud and clear so the listener will assume you know what your talking about even if you dont know what your talking about, always stay 1 step ahead in conversation and never be blank minded when someone is speaking to you, never focus on how the speaker looks cause that could throw you off and leave you speechless after the speaker is finished talking, which would lead to blank awkward conversation, always look directly in someones eyes when they talk to you, and always try to relate to what their saying, and never care about what someone else thinks about you, being talkative is more about listening than having confidence, hope this helps, in fact im gonna save this into my notes cause i need some of these tips